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Why is he being so complimentary?

Q.   the last two days ive worked with a guy i have worked with for over two years. it was so weird because i have really enjoyed working with him and this is whats weird, hes highly complimentary of me makes me feel really good about myself as i have ...

A.   20 June 2012: He may have taken a fancy to you. If it was just work compliments then I wouldn't have read too much into it. But comments about your skin suggest that might like you.... (read in full...)

I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!

Q.   Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as ...

A.   17 June 2012: Aw, honey. You are not over reacting. It sounds like he's really inconsiderate, mean and self-absorbed. I know you like him, but honestly I think you could find someone better. Find someone who won't degrade everything you do. You deserve someone ... (read in full...)

Does first time sex hurt?

Q.   Having sex for the first time does it hurt ? Is it suppose to hurt ? I just wanna know what to expect when I have sex for the first time ...

A.   17 June 2012: Hey, It's different for all women. It can hurt a little, be mildly uncomfortable or not hurt at all. There are things you and your partner can do to reduce the chances of pain. Make sure you're comfortable with your partner and your body will re... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks its ok to cuddle with friends

Q.   My boyfriend has a friend ( girl ) kinda like a best friend .. that i think is way to friendly with him. I get so jealous. I havent even met this girl yet, and i hate her already. She has a weird sense of humor that i dont get. And like i said.. w...

A.   17 June 2012: Hugging friends is ok, but there is a big difference between a quick hug and a long cuddle. For me cuddling is a very intimate thing and I would be very angry with my boyfriend if he was cuddling with other women. Be grateful that your boyfrie... (read in full...)

Why won't she give me her number?

Q.   I tried to get this girls number off of myyearbook.com, here's how the conversation went: Me: You have really pretty hair :) Her: Aha,thank youuu Me: You're welcome :) Her: :) Me: Can I have your number? Her: No Me: Ok. Why w...

A.   17 June 2012: Do you have any background with this girl? A lot of girls don't give their numbers out to guys they don't really know. Especially over the internet, whether they think they look attractive or not. I suspect her "If you want my number, just ask... (read in full...)

Girlfriend asked me for a mmf threesome with my bestfriend

Q.   My girlfriend's engaged friends starting having threesomes and this sprung curiosity in her.but As a result, she told me that she would like to have one with my best friend. I admit immaturity in my response, but I flipped the fuck out because the ...

A.   17 June 2012: I've never been through anything like this myself, but I know that if my boyfriend suggested a three-some with my best friend it would break my heart too. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be with another woman (whether I was there to witness it or ... (read in full...)

Will fingering harm me?

Q.   I'm in a relationship from past 3 months.i wanted to if fingering my vagina by my boyfriend will cause any harm to me in the future! I'm a virgin...

A.   17 June 2012: As long as his nails aren't long, sharp or dirty then it should not harm you.... (read in full...)

He keeps trying to change who I am, and kissed another girl ---

Q.   My boyfriend is really nice and has been really good to me so far but the other week i found out he kissed another girl they've been friends for years so i pretended i didnt care but since then our relationship has been a little tense also he keeps ...

A.   10 June 2012: I'm sorry sweetie but it doesn't sound like your boyfriend "is really nice and has been really good" to you. You need to be who you are and not who he wants to manipulate you into being. Caring Guy is right. You are worth more than lettin... (read in full...)

I'm scard to be kissed!

Q.   I am dateing a guy a few weeks now and he asked me if he can kiss me it was on mxit he asked me if he can kiss me and I said "yea sure I don't mind" then the saturday he visited me and tried to kiss me I turned my head so he can't kiss me cause I'm ...

A.   10 June 2012: Are you scared because it is your first kiss and you don't know what to expect? If so then I think most of us have been there. I was 15 when I had my first kiss and I was so nervous I was shaking. It's not nearly as scary the second time and even... (read in full...)

Should I not have told my b/f my fears?

Q.   Yesterday, something really scared me. I told my bf and mentioned to him that I was scared I was going to die young because of different "close calls." This morning and tonight, he hasn't called me or anything. I felt hurt like he didn't give a damn ...

A.   10 June 2012: I agree with the girls that there's no way of telling when you'll go and that you should relax and enjoy life. And I seriously doubt that after two years together he thinks your crazy or doesn't give a damn. It sounds like you're a bit str... (read in full...)

I looked in my boyfriend's email and guess what I found!

Q.   I am 21 and have been with my current bf for over two years. about six or seven months ago I found a questionable email in my bfs email. it was dated at least two years prior to meeting him and it was from a guy in the email my bf asked this guy to ...

A.   10 June 2012: I agree with Daisy_Daisy. If he's not gay then he's probably bi-sexual. He could be gay and feels too self-conscious or embarrassed to come out, or is scared about how family and friends will react and is there for trying to cover up by going ou... (read in full...)

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