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writes:My boyfriend is really nice and has been really good to me so far but the other week i found out he kissed another girl they've been friends for years so i pretended i didnt care but since then our relationship has been a little tense also he keeps try to sort of change who i am like my personality and make me more out going and more confident which ive never been i am trying to be that any way but he is trying to forse me to change to quickly and its having the reverse effect an im not sure what to think any more. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2012): Oh my Gosh girl, you are still SO YOUNG!! Enjoy your childhood and don't worry so much about findig ''the one'' Until you get into your 20s and 30s that needn't be a worry at all. Enjoy being a child! Good luck :)
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reader, here-to-hear  +, writes (10 June 2012):
I'm sorry sweetie but it doesn't sound like your boyfriend "is really nice and has been really good" to you.
You need to be who you are and not who he wants to manipulate you into being.
Caring Guy is right. You are worth more than letting a guy cheating on you. I think you are really hurt by this and pretending that it doesn't hurt you is just another way to be who he wants you to be and not who you want to be. And I'm afraid you're sending out the signal of "cheat on me if you want, I don't mind".
Cheating is extremely painful and when someone cheats on me I don't look back. You are worth more.
Good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 June 2012):
He's cheated. And he's trying to change you.
These are pretty much the two of the worst things that a man can do.
Don't accept cheating. Ever. If someone cheats on you, in all truth they're probably not worth your time.
More importantly, never ever change for someone else. If someone cant' accept you as you are, then they're not the one for you.
Ditch this guy, find a better one. Never accept treatment like this again.
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