My g/f now says she likes this guy, but she still likes me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, but her mom doesn't want her with me. She thinks we don't talk anymore, and she's set her up with some other guy. She is now confused and says she likes this guy, but still likes me. ...
A. 7 April 2009: Sounds like a tricky situation and a year is a very long time.
Obviously its hard for a stranger over the internet to assess the situation, and you ultimately know whats right. However, if the circumstances are hard and she does like this guy then... (read in full...)
I kissed my female friend, am I bi?
Q. So, about a week ago I spent the night with a really good friend who i've known is a lesbian...we kissed, and I broke it as soon as it happened. I told her I didn't want to, we agreed it was an accident, we put it behind us..but I did want to. I ...
A. 26 March 2009: You are still young and have a lot of time to figure these big questions out. It may feel like a massive deal, but if you are then one of the most painful things you can do is supress it. You could end up feeling quite alone, i've found myself in ... (read in full...)
I love my best friend's boyfriend!
Q. I have a major problem!I love my best mates boyfriend!He texts me all the time and one of my mates sarah is always on the one to him and apparently he sed "i mean i like Kay and everything but theres just something about Beth" Please help i'm so ...
A. 5 March 2009: It may not feel like it now but the way you feel about this guy will change very soon. Infact, you'll feel this way about a number of guys and then look back and laugh about the way you felt- even though you might not believe this now.
In school, ... (read in full...)
If I can't go away from her I continue to hurt myself, what should I do?
Q. she is my friend from since 8 months, the bond of our relationship was so strong that i could feel her pain, her feelings, i used to solve her problems, one day i proposed her only to find no on her side. she never changed her attitude towards me, ...
A. 5 March 2009: It's always hard when you like someone and the feelings aren't reciprocated and i can imagine this is really difficult for you.
If you are finding it really impossible to be a friend to her then maybe you need to reevaluate the situation and your... (read in full...)
I've been in love with another girl for 5 1/2 years. I told her, and now she won't talk to me. What do I do now?
Q. hey im in l love with a friend of mine. the problem is that shes a girl and so am i. i've loved her for about 5 1/2 years. i ve told her that i love her. though she diddnt reply positively, by her conduct i know that she loves me to. but we live in ...
A. 29 October 2007: ah, i feel your pain, and iv been a very similar situation although i wasnt half as patient as you seemed to have been. I was in love with my best friend for about two and a half years, i didnt tell her but something came between us which meant we ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but sometimes I have very serious doubts about us!
Q. Im 18 years old (female), and have been with my girlfriend on and off for 15 months. She cheated on me over xmas/january time, and after alot of agro i took her back. Her mum is a reformed jehovah's witness and contacting her is so hard as her m...
A. 29 July 2007: Thanks, it makes alot of sense. In your personal opinion, (or anyone that would be willing to help), do you think that although i love her, if she cant physically give me what i need out the relationship, than i should/could move on and try to fall ... (read in full...)
I'm Anxious about him getting a text from his ex on New Years Eve!!!
Q. Should i be mad if on New Years Eve, my b/f receievs a text from an ex OR excuses himself a few minutes after midnight to avoid me seeing a text from a girl and to avoid me getting mad about it? I am feeling anxious about it coming up. Last year on ...
A. 20 December 2006: i know this might not be what you want to hear, and you sound like a really nice person. but i think your being abit jealous. maybe the reason he told you it was a guy was because he knew you would respond like this?
it sounds like you definite... (read in full...)
Should I come out as bi-sexual? At school?
Q. Hi, There is a girl in my year at school who came out and said she was bi-sexual, she got loadsa crap for it too, which was unfair. I think i maybe too, and I dont know wheter to come out and tell people or not say anything until Im sure Im bi-sexua...
A. 19 December 2006: no i think its best definitely not to. you should tell people when you are certain and even then, its not anyones business, especially not peers at school. tell who you want to, close friends, to convide in them and seek acceptance to show you its ... (read in full...)
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