How do you communicate with someone who is so closed?
Q. Hello there - I am having serious communication issues with my partner and it seems to be going downhill rapidly. I really dont know what to do about it apart from leave him or get relationship counselling. I am at the end of my tether trying to...
A. 6 January 2012: Thanks to you both, you have been very helpful about this difficult situation. To anonymous - the baby was a surprise and we were only just starting to see each other. He lived 200 kms away from me and we negotiated at the time that I would move up ... (read in full...)
His crazy ex endlessly contacts him and now knows our address, and sent him a card, what should I do?
Q. Hi aunts... I need some help. My boyfriend of two years had a very mentally unstable girlfriend about 6 years ago. He still cares about her and wants to help her be happy, but they aren't talking atm because she is inappropriate when it comes to...
A. 4 January 2012: Hello there lovely!!
I agree with cerberus - it will have to be an ultimatum situation. Your story really resonates with me as my partner has/had a 'friend' not an EX who seems to be obsessed with him and also uses her child to emotiona... (read in full...)
B/f embarrassed me in front of his friends. Should we talk about it again?
Q. I dont know whether this is a dumpable offence or not.... I was invited to my boyfriends house christmas dinner, and i was meeting some friends i had not yet met before, so i was trying hard to make an effort for him as you do, and during dinne...
A. 19 December 2011: Hello there!
I can really resonate with you here as I have had multiple boyfriends who have been downright embarrassing and precocious in social situations. I think what we have here is an insecurity. Your boyfriend obviously feels insecure... (read in full...)
What to think of his reply to my message?
Q. I do not know if is truly being indifferent, or scorn with me? This guy I like since his girlfriend dumped him 11 months ago he's acting like he won't give a damn. We had something on in which we liked each other , but unfortunately I ...
A. 8 December 2011: Its a hard thing to swallow - BUT He is just not that into you and the situation! I would back away now - it seems to me that your feelings are strong and are giving a little too much too soon. Recipe for disaster! Many a time I have made this ... (read in full...)
Can't let go of the past! Help!
Q. I have a problem, its a seems a small problem in comparison to a lot of problems in this world, but if anyone can help me I would be very grateful! My issue is I cant seem to let go! of issues that have caused me grief and pain and anger. For exam...
A. 7 December 2011: Thanks to you both - the main issue is me and the fact that I am finding it tough to let go. I would love to learn of some skills to enable me to let all this negative rubbish go! I am very pent up with anger and frustration and its not helping me ... (read in full...)
She's the partner of my guy's best friend. How do I deal with this bossy woman? I'm all stressed out about it
Q. Big dilemma! I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 12 months - during this time we discovered that we were pregnant and have decided to go through with the pregnancy. Because of his income, we both decided it would be better if I moved ...
A. 18 January 2011: I know it seems a very weird and messed up situation! sounds very much like a story from a hillbilly town or jerry springer!!Thank you so much for your advice! It is so true! I am far removed from counting on her for anything as i dont want to and ... (read in full...)
There's no point in us being together, right?
Q. hey guys.so i have been with this guy for 4 months now.like a month ago he went away to his parents.Another town.ever since he went there he hardly texts me, never answers my calls and whenever i ask why dont you answer my calls his usually reply is ...
A. 17 January 2011: Hey babe - let him go! he isn't being receptive or respectful to you at all and has been a coward in dealing with it this way...unfortunately I think if you try and stay with him you will be wasting your time. Think of how much better treated and ... (read in full...)
| *eidos's friends
These are mutual friends, so *eidos has
added them and they have added *eidos!
|
