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writes: I do not know if is truly being indifferent, or scorn with me?This guy I like since his girlfriend dumped him 11 months ago he's acting like he won't give a damn. We had something on in which we liked each other , but unfortunately I fell into the game of friends with benefits with him, until the backed off saying he could not go on because he do not think he should treat me like a tramp and he respects me too much to hurt me and we shouldn't go on and stay just friends.It turns out that his birthday is coming up and I sent him a text message asking that what would he like me to give him as present . There was no response from him. Thinking he might got offended at the thought that I was offering myself again, I sent another message saying "not a bad thing, do not think wrong!" to which he answered "Whatever you want." So what you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all, now that I know should I give him the gift or it won't matter if I do so as a good bye gift?!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 December 2011):
time to let him go sweetie...
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reader, heidos +, writes (8 December 2011):
Its a hard thing to swallow - BUT He is just not that into you and the situation! I would back away now - it seems to me that your feelings are strong and are giving a little too much too soon. Recipe for disaster! Many a time I have made this mistake and if they aren't into you, they wont change their mind if you try to! Good luck hunny! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): I think your FWB relationship was over long ago and you are trying to revive something with him. He doesn't sound very interested.
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