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... Send *ands_down317 a private message | | | *ands_down317's profile:I'm a forlorn, little bundle of overused muscles tied together with metaxalone... I am one of those people that spends the bulk of our lives recapitulating old conflicts, trying to undo the damage that was inflicted on us as children. But most of us never do it. I mean, if I understand what I'm doing, why can't I just stop doing it? But what am I doing exactly? I'm better then I was, but I'm not the Statue of Liberty. Sometimes I think I'm a different person to everyone. Sometimes people know me, sometimes they don't. Anyone who tries to tell you exactly who I am, they don't know me at all. I like to sing in the shower for about ten minutes, or however long it takes me to notice that my socks are still on my feet. I like chewing on ice. I am dyslexic and hate those "enter the letter" verifications. I hate my period. I like to listen, it's what I do best. I hate silence, silence is no gold to me. I love my coffee, and I love my cigarettes, I love that my point shoes are on my wall, not my feet. I love kitten, though I'm still convinced I am a dog person! I like to love from my fingertips, dance from my heart, write from my head, and talk out my ass. I love to hate the government and go out of my way to love John Lennon, may he rest. Wish I was part of the anti-war movement. I believe I was born 34 years late and that I should have hit my prime in the 70's along with the music, the hippies, the love, and the drugs. I wish I was 2 inches taller and I don't like sweet foods. I love the fashion scene and I do buy over priced bags, sunglasses, shoes with money that I don't have. |
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Periods and sexual activity....
Q. Well im a 14 year old girl and i havent started my period yet. but i like this guy and we have been going out for sometime but he wants to finger me and i want him to but can i be fingered without starting? x...
A. 29 May 2009: Absolutely you can :) Nothing would be different if you had your period either.
Kate... (read in full...)
Orgasm Trouble. The sequal!
Q. Hello, I've posted before about my inability to orgasm and FINALLY "tada" I had one, and then some more later on... BUT they only last like half a second... was I expecting too much? Is this normal? My sex life is a gong show, any adivice could he...
A. 26 May 2009: Thanks Kelly, I grew up with mostly guy friends so I never really had a girl to talk to this stuff about. ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a vasectomy to kick in?
Q. Does anyone know how long after a vasectomy is a man truly infertile?...
A. 26 May 2009: The doctor should tell you this when the procedure happens, I've heard that it can take up to 10 days.... (read in full...)
My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!
Q. I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't ...
A. 19 May 2009: Umm so a follow-up... I think I'm orgasming. If I am it's only lasting like half a second. It's amazing for half a second! But that's it... I've read on here many times what an orgasm feels like and yes all those things are happening, but was I ... (read in full...)
How can we go back to being friends?
Q. Hello everybody! Yesterday, my best friend and I broke up. I love him very much. How can we go back to being best friends if we both love each other? (he broke up with me because be didn't have time to spend with me and I deserved better.) Thank ...
A. 8 May 2009: I'm not going to say that, don't worry. Everyone's different and no one can tell you that you are or aren't in love. I think that you guys have a great chance of getting back to normal. And if you guys love eachother, maybe just give it some time, ... (read in full...)
How can we go back to being friends?
Q. Hello everybody! Yesterday, my best friend and I broke up. I love him very much. How can we go back to being best friends if we both love each other? (he broke up with me because be didn't have time to spend with me and I deserved better.) Thank ...
A. 8 May 2009: you may or may not be able to get things back to the way they were. How physical were you?
I dated my best friend, twice actually but he was just too much like a brother so i could have a physical relationship with him, but we are still closer then... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my depressed boyfriend, without becoming depressed myself?
Q. My boyfriend is extremely depressed at the moment. He has a history of depression, and has gone through phases like this before in our relationship, but it's getting much harder lately. I've taken psychology courses, and there is a history of ...
A. 8 May 2009: The weather can have a huge impact especially when it is grey and raining out. That kind of weather doesn't send out positivity lol. Something that might help for the first little while is get out and be active, I know its the last thing he wants to ... (read in full...)
My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!
Q. I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't ...
A. 7 May 2009: No I havn't EVER in my life, and it really sucks... I'm guessing, I guess the bright side is that I can't miss it if I've never had it right?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my depressed boyfriend, without becoming depressed myself?
Q. My boyfriend is extremely depressed at the moment. He has a history of depression, and has gone through phases like this before in our relationship, but it's getting much harder lately. I've taken psychology courses, and there is a history of ...
A. 7 May 2009: I'm sorry you're in this situation. I suffer from a major depression disorder and my boyfriend is bipolar so I can sort of relate to you. The important thing to remember is that you can't pull him out of this depression, that's something he has to ... (read in full...)
Damage from dry humping...
Q. My girlfriend and I are both virgins and recently were dry humping. It lasted quite a while, longer than we've ever gone before. The next morning, she had vaginal tearing and would bleed when she went to the restroom. Is it possible that we ...
A. 23 April 2009: You won't bust her hymen by dry humping. Trust a girl on that for sure. Her hymen won't tear or "break" unless you have sex or put your finger(s) deep inside her. do not use aloevera. I think you can try prevent this by loosing some layers next time ... (read in full...)
Damage from dry humping...
Q. My girlfriend and I are both virgins and recently were dry humping. It lasted quite a while, longer than we've ever gone before. The next morning, she had vaginal tearing and would bleed when she went to the restroom. Is it possible that we ...
A. 23 April 2009: This happened between my boyfriend and I one time, and if you were wearing jeans it could have just rubbed to hard. It could have been a combonation of both hard and long. It should only take a couple of days to (about 3) for her to feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend
Q. i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...
A. 6 April 2009: Okay well 1) you're 13... you're a child. You probably think you know everything, you don't. Sex changes everything and I wouldn't recomend having it so young. But if you're going to have sex anyways I'll tell you straight up. You may not bleed, ... (read in full...)
Surely this is what relationships are meant to be like?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel so unhappy with myself. With his comments. I feel so low and have low self esteem and wonder who will want me if we spilt as I'm the kind of person who needs to feel loved and secure. But I'm not with him and it's an ...
A. 3 April 2009: I'm sorry you're going through this, and no, this isn't what a relationship should be like. First thing, he shouldn't EVER put you down like that. Just because he says "but you still look good" doesn't erase the blow he gave you before. Have you ... (read in full...)
16 yo virgin and I have stretch marks on my stomach
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old and I have stretch marks on my stomach, and i dont know how to get them to go away. me and my best friend want to loose our virginity to each other, but im scared to take off my shirt. can you help me? ...
A. 30 March 2009: Many girls get stretch marks after they hit puberty, be it on there stomach, thighs, butt, and even boobs, it's not something to be ashamed of it's perfectly normal. If you're planning on losing your virginity, the guy that you're with shouldn't ... (read in full...)
Hymen, sex and oral!
Q. My boyfriend and I love each other, we make out and fool around, he sometimes fingers me but it hurts. Now I have two questions : I have looked and it looks like I have like a -full- hymen, so you can't really get your fingers -inside - is that why ...
A. 30 March 2009: It's not going to hurt as much when it's broken. It hurts now because the hymen is stretching, when you have intercorse or if he puts his fingers deep inside you it usually tears and that can be painful but once it's fractured it'll take some time ... (read in full...)
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