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My mum thinks my boyfriend is abusive but I want to move closer to him

Q.   okay my family LOVED my boyfriend up until we had a massive argument and I told my mum everything that he's done (he's not done anything abusive, but he does small things like reads my texts, hacks my email, reads my msn history, doesn't let me talk ...

A.   26 May 2009: i completely know exactly how u feel, all the worst part about when you have an argument you spill the beans and regret it after...your mom loves you and wants the best for you it might not work out with him but you dont know unless you try you will ... (read in full...)

I either want him or I want to move on from him

Q.   hi right this one is a longish one.. lets call my ex Jo.me and jo broke up 3 years this aug 8th after 2 and a half yrs 2getha. i experienced everything with him for my first time so to finish after he cheated on me was heartbreaking. we both moved ...

A.   7 May 2009: thanks but he isnt even allowed to be my friend, his gf wont let him because shes paranoid there is something there still which there is..he did cheat ye but i forgave him everytime he cheated so i cnt use that against him if u no what i mean x... (read in full...)

We have flirted in the past now he is totally ignoring me!

Q.   I need some help. I really like this guy at my school. I’ve liked him for about 4 months now. He has a girlfriend at a different school. We have flirted in the past, and played around joking and stuff. Then randomly one week he just stopped ...

A.   7 May 2009: sorry to hear he dint break up with his gf...i still wouldnt chase him though xx... (read in full...)

Pregnancy test came back negative but I still havent got my period!

Q.   My period is almost three weeks late and i have been experiencing several pregnancy symptoms. Increased fatigue, increase in vaginal discharge, and today i felt some sharp stabbing-like pain in my upper left abdomen. I have taken a clear blue colour ...

A.   7 May 2009: you need to consult your doctor asap, you could have a water infection, you could be pregnant or there could be another issue you must consult your doctor though... (read in full...)

We have flirted in the past now he is totally ignoring me!

Q.   I need some help. I really like this guy at my school. I’ve liked him for about 4 months now. He has a girlfriend at a different school. We have flirted in the past, and played around joking and stuff. Then randomly one week he just stopped ...

A.   7 May 2009: maybe his gf broke up with him? sounds to me lke there is a bit of attention seeking going on and although he is feeling sorry for himself he likes the fact that you are at his call,,play him back at his own game...down contact him,if u see him ... (read in full...)

I can't get over this guy

Q.   Hey, i really dont know what to do, so here it goes. my best friend got with the guy she knew i liked, and broke up with him a week later, but thats not the problem, my problem is that i couldn't and cant get over this guy, its driving me nuts. ...

A.   7 May 2009: you should tell your friend that he is a friend too and you are going to ask him what is wrong, if she is a real friend she wouldnt put you in the middle anyway, she will be mad and she will moan but thats what girls do (ive done it)she will also ... (read in full...)

Finally moving in with my LDR boyfriend, but I have my doubts he is not the "one"

Q.   I have been in this long distance relationship for 4 years, and now we are finally moving in together. But, our relationship has not been in our best. He has lied to me several times, and it has been hard for me to trust him, and we are constantly ...

A.   7 May 2009: me and my ex were in the same sort of role he cheated,he lied,he let me down and i forgave him after 2 and a half years when it came to living together i wasnt sure he was the one anymore...now we have been over for 2 and a half years and although i ... (read in full...)

The unforgetable first crush!

Q.   i met this guy back last May and he had a crush on me i started to like him later on that year like in october(well at least thats when i know i did) but the thing is he got a gf and i was really hurt i was depressed becuase he told me he knew i ...

A.   6 May 2009: usually thats how it works...you find someone to replace him,,and then you find someone else to replace them. Your 1st crush is ur 1st crush,,it will take a while to get over him and nothing i can say will make it better..sorry!! But..he i... (read in full...)

Does my old crush still like me?

Q.   well when i used to have a crush on him i told him and at the beginning we got on fine and i don't know if he liked me back or not but then it sort of changed and i went off him and now he is being so annoying and whenever he sees me he always tries ...

A.   5 May 2009: sounds to me like he is suffering with a form of rejection, he obviously now likes you because you dont like him, i have been there i know, the fact that he had you there was sweet, but now that ur not,,,well he dont want you but he dont want no one ... (read in full...)

Does he need time? Or is he fooling himself?

Q.   I'm sorry this is long but I needed to say it all.. please help and answer only if you read it all. Thanks so much :) After 2 years of a wonderful relationship my boyfriend broke up with me because he felt we needed space and time to figure out wh...

A.   5 May 2009: are you two completely different people for him to think...he had to fit into your world and he wanted you to be proud of him??? Maybe he does think that but you should tell him, you deserve to be happy too and although being without him is h... (read in full...)

Back out on the dating scene after years... so how can I tell if we are more than friends?

Q.   I am single for the 1st time in 9 years and am not sure how to tell how a guy feels about me. I have been hanging out with a guy from work, going to the cinema, meeting up for drinks, watching DVDs at his house, and from my perspective, we're just ...

A.   5 May 2009: firstly.. "However, all my friends say he'll be thinking that there's more to it, that if you meet up with a guy on your own, they're going to think there's more than friendship on offer." i hang out with guys and im the only girl all the time a... (read in full...)

Friends... or is she ignoring me?

Q.   Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close mates...

A.   5 May 2009: this girl sounds like a very immature teenager. You probably dont like her its the fact that she rejects you that your jealous, a common cause if she started wanting you, you wouldnt be interested. If there is a conversation dont get involved, tr... (read in full...)

Any advice, does he really want it over or am I just not accepting it?

Q.   I broke up with my partner 4 weeks ago and I just can't get him out of my head. I finished it but I tried to change my mind and he just said fu*k it we're done. I went away for the weekend packed all his stuff, he came to collect it when I wasn't ...

A.   5 May 2009: by the sounds of it he is hurting yes,,he collects his stuff when you arent there so he doesnt have to see you and know what he is throwing away.There is no way to get him out of your head, me and my ex have been split nearly 3 years and i think ... (read in full...)

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