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He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....

Q.   Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever...

A.   31 July 2011: It's amazing to me how someone can stay in a relationship with someone that cheated 5 times. It takes 1 time and you leave that person.. There is a say that all people should consider "ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER" I think it's a pathological ... (read in full...)

Dating for a year and never gone on a "date" yet!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We get along fine and time with just ourselves is great. We have never gone on a date yet. I've tried to plan 3 but always something came up with my bf and the date would be called off. Afte...

A.   15 July 2011: I can understand if he is not ready to show you to his family, but I can't understand why you can't write on his facebook and I can't believe he never invited you to a restaurant (I hope he gives you flowers). That's a red flag already, and a sign ... (read in full...)

What is an estimate of a healthy amount of time between relationships?

Q.   Hi there What is an estimate of a healthy amount of time between relationships? I was in a long term relationship for 3 years and its like I'm clueless about dating. I'm in my late 20s and only 2 serious relationships. Last time, it was 3 months b...

A.   15 July 2011: In my opinion 3-4 yrs is just enough before you make the big step and get engaged, but not in all cases. If you did not learn much about the person you are in a relationship for 3 yrs, that means something is wrong. Relationships are a lot more ... (read in full...)

Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?

Q.   Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...

A.   15 July 2011: Sending naked photos back and forth to me is same as physical cheating..the main bad ingredients are there ! You did the right thing to leave him... (read in full...)

I don't know how to handle falling in love with my best friend...

Q.   What is the right thing to do if you're falling in love with your close friend which is also a girl and you can't still accept the fact that you're in love with her? Is it right to just avoid her? Is it necessary to tell her your feelings towards ...

A.   14 July 2011: Well first of all if she is a lesbian it might be easier. If she is heterosexual it might be challenging. You have to investigate the situation here. How is she around you ? does she show any affection toward you ? I think it's important, if she is ... (read in full...)

Is weekly sex causing all of this itching and scratching?

Q.   This may sound silly but is just the truth. I have being having sex with my guy every week. And recently my vagina{i.e private part} has be scratching me seriously,but yesterday i use mirror to look at it and i found out that there were tiny things ...

A.   14 July 2011: I suggest you to see a doctor about it..it could be anything from genitalia herpes to maybe hygiene, maybe you did not wash yourself so well in your private parts. Anything that itch down there is a red flag.... (read in full...)

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