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My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex.

Q.   Help My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex. She tells me that if I do not pester her for sex then it might happen more often but I realise now after 6 months that th...

A.   3 February 2010: Ok, I'll try to fill in a few bits of detail. Guess I should have included this - sorry. Didn't want to make it an essay ! Were both 41, married 11 years, together nearly 20. In a rut ? - definately but how to get out of it. If I ask to t... (read in full...)

After two passion-less relationships I slept with a man who was red hot in bed... !

Q.   I was in a less than passionate relationship for 7 years. After that ended, my next boyfriend's sexual desire was almost nonexistent(he never desired it). I desired it every day. Being rejected physically for such a long time took it's toll and just ...

A.   4 July 2007: VERY interesting. I'm on the verge of splitting up with my wife as she has no interest AT ALL. It goes way beyond just sex, she wont talk to me and is just hell to live with. She tries to tell me that having a strong desire as I do is not the ... (read in full...)

Should I follow my obligations to my wife?

Q.   I no longer love my wife and we have little in common. I see that it was an error to marry her, but I don't want to hurt her (let alone my kids, 5 and 1 year old). I love another woman. We were never together. I'm sure it's the strongest passio...

A.   11 December 2006: I know exactly how you feel. Does you wife still love and want you ? Mine sure doesn't It is the most amazingly hard thing in the world for a bloke to consider leaving his kids and I don't have an answer except to say that all the advice I hav... (read in full...)

Something happened earlier in our relationship that still bothers me and I can't ever forget it. How can I let it go?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 11 months now. he loves me, i can tell. but something happened earlier in our relationship that still bothers me and i can't ever forget it, how can i let it go? see, about 3 to 4 months into our ...

A.   11 December 2006: Hi, I'm a guy and my best mate is a girl. To make matters worse with my wife my mate is a stunner too. Can't deny shes very attractive but she is just my mate and nothing more. Point is guys do like to have girl mates without anything else. I... (read in full...)

I have tired of putting my life on hold for him...am I being impatient and should I wait?

Q.   I live with man whom I love dearly. He has 2 children who don't want to associate with me. We both left our ex's for each other.I have asked him what are his intentions for the future as I want us to be a couple and to start to set goals. However, ...

A.   13 September 2006: Well he says he loves you so you're doing better than many. Ultimately if your partner wont talk it will be very damaging, i know this from personal experience. It takes a lot to keep a relationship going and stopping communication is one of the w... (read in full...)

How can you have friends that are girls without getting grief from your wife/girlfriend ?

Q.   Hi, Here is a good question. If you're a guy and like me, you tend to get along with girls as friends. How can you have them as friends without getting into grief with your wife/girlfriend over it. Seems impossible to me. Sure I know yo...

A.   8 September 2006:  finchy, i spend very little time. my missus takes kids away to family every now and then and im not invited, i use this time to meet up with my brother, pals etc some of which are girls, say once a month. Irish49, when you say mistaking, do yo... (read in full...)

I really like her, and she seems to like me but she is going through a split with her husband...

Q.   Hi guys, I'd like to know if you think I am doing the right thing or not... So...there is someone i've known for a good while but i've got to know her a lot better this year (since i split from my ex). I've realised the more i know her, the mo...

A.   7 September 2006: Hey, You're both single or soon to be. Assuming the break from her guy is really happening and beyond hope. If you have true feelings for this girl then I'd count yourself as very lucky to have found something like this and go for it. Proba... (read in full...)

I really want to repair things with my wife, but shes too busy to sit and talk, added complication Ive fallen for friend!!

Q.   Hi All, Hope some of you can find a bit of time to help with this cos it is killing me at the moment. I've been married for 7 years now, known my wife 15 years and have two kids 4 and 6. My kids are the light of my life. I'd like to say hap...

A.   6 September 2006: It tricky to be honest here even with myself. I do think we have grown apart. Honestly we were never that in touch in the first place, it just kind of went along. I have been trying various things as were suggested over the last few years. I don... (read in full...)

Should I finally tell my BF im on the pill ? Will it offend him I didnt tell him before ?

Q.   I've been on birth control pills for a year now. My boyfriend does not know about this. Being a responsible adult, we use condoms everytime we have sex. The only thing is my boyfriend doesn't know I also use the pills to be extra protected. I know a ...

A.   5 September 2006:  If it was me i'd be fine. Is your Guy happy to use condoms ? Most of us are but secretly would love to get rid of the hassle because it does tend to hinder those spontaneous moments. I take it you don't feel comfortable with that ? Pill is pret... (read in full...)

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