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Is there a place for a teenager to become a foster child without going to the police?

Q.   Hi there, I have posted on here before about my step father hitting me, and how my mother has chosen to be happy with him although he is abusing me. But now, I am at a turning point. I have searched all over the internet, and there is no foster ...

A.   18 January 2010: There is never any excuse for a grown man hitting a 15 year old girl. You need to talk to the police before this situation gets any worse. Don't think that by getting him in trouble, you will be ruining your mother's happiness. In reality, you will ... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend and her friend cooked up a scheme to get back at me

Q.   So, I went out with this girl for maybe 3 weeks. A the end of the three weeks, she dropped me for occasionally saying stupid (not mean, just stupid) things, and not calling her on a holiday. I tried to get her back for maybe a week then about a week ...

A.   18 January 2010: Sounds to me like she's a petty, superficial person. Granted, it probably wasn't a good idea to hook up with her friend in any case. Sounds like you don't have a whole lot of experience and you will need to date quite a few people before you know ... (read in full...)

I feel betrayed, we broke up and while I was home crying he was off having sex with lots of different girls, now he wants me back

Q.   My bf broke up with me, then went out and had sex with a bunch of random girls, and now he wants me back after 2 weeks of being broken up for. Why would he do this? He says he realises it was all a mistake and that he didnt appreciate what he had ...

A.   18 January 2010: If your boyfriend didn't have much experience with other girls, maybe he lacked sufficient frame of reference to be sure of the way he feels about you. Maybe he just needed to see for himself that the grass isn't greener on the other side of the ... (read in full...)

Role playing...

Q.   can you help us by suggesting role playing ideas! me and my wife are looking for some. some thing that is not off a filthy porn style, but of a nice fantasy....

A.   18 January 2010: How about a strap-on?... (read in full...)

He wants me out right this minute!

Q.   I am a man living in Michigan and have been seeing / living with another man for 6 months. Now he wants me out because I didn't get him a card for Christmas. It is his house and he wants me out this very second. I refused because I don't have...

A.   17 January 2010: Legal issues aside, This guy is obviously insane and you should want to move out.... (read in full...)

Am I right? Can this guy really be gay or bi?

Q.   Here's the story a little bit better explained. Two fridays ago, we were placed in groups and tasked the writing of Christmas cards to a chosen person. Luckily I was paired with him. During this time, he once again looked into my eyes and said ...

A.   17 January 2010: Sounds like a scene from Boyz in da Closet to me. ... (read in full...)

Will I ever be able to have a committed relationship the way I feel about sex?

Q.   I am a masculine gay young man, but I fear that my sexuality is very *selfish*. I enjoy having anal sex with other men and receiving blow jobs, but I find being on the receiving end of anal or giving blow jobs utterly repugnant and a total turn off. ...

A.   17 January 2010: You still got a lot of maturing to do, so for the time being, I would say unlikely you'll have a successful ltr anytime soon. There's hope for you though, because at least you acknowledge some kind of issue there. Your fear is controlling you, so ... (read in full...)

Telling people you're gay

Q.   im 17 gay male. i think i should tell my friends beacuse its getting hard to keep in. but how do you tell people you have known for 10 years your gay?...

A.   17 January 2010: Keep it simple when you tell people. Just say "There's something important I need to tell you... I'm Gay." 90% of the time it's a total non-event. If anyone has a problem with it, tell them to go f**k themselves, because they don't deserve ... (read in full...)

My first time was not a good experience and now has me doubting that I might be gay!

Q.   im 20 yrs old and im wondering if am i gay??? because i just lost my virginity to a girl complete stranger i dont know i just met her and did it. i thought the sex was gonna be real good cause its my first time but it wasnt hers and it was good but ...

A.   17 January 2010: Would like to point out it's possible to go through puberty watching and masturbating to straight porn and being aroused when a girl touches you. I did and yet, I'm gay. I just was in denial and never considered the alternative, so girls seemed ... (read in full...)

Should I say yes and go out with him?

Q.   Hi im a 16 year old boy from england and i recently gor asked out by another boy. He is gay, i am not. It started with a talk on MSN and he asked me if i would go out with him i said no, but then i kept on thinking that gay sex might be ok and i sh...

A.   17 January 2010: How do you know for sure whether you really like girls if you've never had sex with a guy and vice versa? I was married to a woman for four years and never knew I preferred men. Be totally upfront and honest about your intentions and I'm sure all ... (read in full...)

Is this behavior the way most gay couples behave? What should I do?

Q.   I am a 47 year old male that has been in a gay relationship with my partner for 3 years. A year into our relationship, I discovered he was frequenting video stores, having anonomous sex (he said no penetration, just jerking guys off), meeting ...

A.   17 January 2010: Your guy sounds like a sex addict. He has a serious issue which will not just go away on its own. He has trouble with real intimacy and will continue to do so. My opinion is that you need to end the relationship, otherwise you are doomed to suffer. ... (read in full...)

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