Is he cheating, cybering to this other girl and asking for pictures?
Q. I am feeling so distraught. my boyfriend signed into msn hotmail on my computer to check his e-mail and the details as in password and address were stored on the computer, my curiosity got the better of me and i had a look at his e-mail. i was ...
A. 10 February 2007: He seems to be having more than a casual interest in this passtime, especially if he is in an online "friendship" with this one girl over a prolonged period of time. Talk to him, raise the issue - he may not see it as cheating as its done over th... (read in full...)
Enough is enough and something has to be done... but what???
Q. Me and my bf have been split for coming upto a year now, and things havent been good since my new bf came into the picture. Gradually over the passing months things between me and him have been getting progressively worst and last wednesday was the ...
A. 10 February 2007: I would never normally advocate avoiding anyone, you shouldn't let any one interfere with your life to that degree, but it might be best for a short while. Obviously your ex has issues - sounds like he's jealous of your new BF to me, by continually ... (read in full...)
I have a fiance but I feel very uncomfortable being naked around him, what can I do about this?
Q. please help me!! i am with my fiance for 2.5 yrs and i am not comfortable being naked in front of him and i hate it when he touch's me too agressively epecially my breasts but he thinks i should just suck it up and say nothing and just let him do ...
A. 10 February 2007: Your partner is a selfish bully, he should be dumped immediately! Your self esteem will only be worsened the longer you stay with this guy and I know you deserve better. Has your attitude towards yourself changed since you have been going out w... (read in full...)
I hate women in general... but now I'm considering getting married. Should I discuss this with my girlfriend before we get engaged?
Q. It seems to me that i hate women in general for some reason unless they are exceptionally kind or well mannered and good looking. And at no cost can i trust them. I have been betrayed by a girl in past, though i have gotten over it. But the more i ...
A. 10 February 2007: You can't hate all women if you're considering getting married to one of them! Talk about your past with your current partner and try to explain how you have been hurt in the past. Unfortunately there are some mean people in the world (including ... (read in full...)
Does absence REALLY make the heart grow fonder? If this is the case I need to see my boyfriend less!
Q. hi im 16 and i have been going out wiv my boyfriend for about a month and a half. we see each other everyday at school and every saturday. so thats only 1 day of the week that we dont see each other! i believe that saying (i have forgotten what it ...
A. 10 February 2007: Your lucky enough to still be very young, so don't feel its the end of the world if you decide he isn't the one for you. You should be enjoying your time not thinking about how to see him less! This could be a warning that you're better of as ... (read in full...)
He's still seeing his ex but she's going through nursing exams at the moment and he doesn't want to break with her till they're over!!!! Do I believe this???
Q. Is it right to break up with my bf or to be considerate with the situation?, he is still supporting his so called ex financially but he just told me just now that he hadn't broken up with her for the girl is having her nursing reveiw at this moment ...
A. 10 February 2007: It isn't fair for him to treat you in this way; do you think he will ever truly cut the ties with his ex? For him to continue seeing her and supporting is a conflict of interests. You have to take a step back and decide whether he's not turning his ... (read in full...)
I can't forgive my best friend for dating my ex boyfriend
Q. im in love with my x but hes datin my best m8 it happened so quickly im still forgivin her but him he just wont go away. He keeps tellin me he likes me too. im findin it so hard and i know im being harsh to my best m8 but i still cant 4give her ...
A. 10 February 2007: I'd say your probably better off without either of them! I know you can't help who you fall for, but if she was truly your best friend she would have known what you're going through and should've stuck by you. Friendship's are longer lasting that ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out so badly but I don't want it to jeapordise our friendship if she says no.
Q. i've fancied this girl for a few months now and i told her but she said she just wanted to be friends but recently we've been getting on really well and i think i should ask her again but i know that if she says no that'll be it for our friendsh...
A. 10 February 2007: Perhaps don't force the move from friendship to something more; just continue as you are, doing activities together, hanging out etc and see how things go. She may be cautious to take things to the next level, so just take it slow, you never ... (read in full...)
Found my girlfriend on a porn site.. but don't want her to know I've been looking at porno!
Q. I found photos of my girlfriend on a porn site but I don't know what to do. If i tell her i found them she'll know I look at porn......
A. 9 February 2007: Two things here - firstly, looking at porn isn't such a big/bad thing, although it does make some women feel uncomfortable. Secondly however, if your g/f is on one of these sites chances are she probably wouldn't have too much against your habits!
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Paranoid that she'll find someone better than me and live happily ever after!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for just over 6 months. I love her to bits, things are going great. I have what I deem to be the usual male paranoia, as we live about 50 miles apart that she'll find someone better than me and live happily ever aft...
A. 9 February 2007: I have been through a similar experience - my b/f started uni the year I graudated, moving a 4 hour train ride away. Before that period we only saw each other at weekends. I initially promised to move with him, but realised it wasn't what I really ... (read in full...)
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