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writes:i've fancied this girl for a few months now and i told her but she said she just wanted to be friendsbut recently we've been getting on really well and i think i should ask her again but i know that if she says no that'll be it for our friendship. what shoud i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Ask her informally if she fancies going for a coffee with you. If she agrees then that's a step in the right direction. Even although you are only just "friends" with her for now, let that friendship grow and deepen. Share problems with one another and be there for one another. Lots of very successful relationships started out as just friendships so don't let that put you off.
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reader, flatpack84 +, writes (10 February 2007):
 Perhaps don't force the move from friendship to something more; just continue as you are, doing activities together, hanging out etc and see how things go.She may be cautious to take things to the next level, so just take it slow, you never know what will happen! If she wasn't scared off in the first place by your admission it seems like maybe she digs you too.Good luck :)
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reader, .x..P.J..x. +, writes (10 February 2007):
 Hey!
Don't worry about it. Just take it slow, mabe take her out to the cinema and then to a restuarant and try and get on well-as you hae been doing. It isn't easy to ask out, what seems to be, your best girl friend. The to this is:
Take it slow.
It will happen eventually I am sure.
Good Luck!
Don't hesitate to ask me for advice.
Love .x..P.J..x.
xxxxxx
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