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writes: It seems to me that i hate women in general for some reason unless they are exceptionally kind or well mannered and good looking. And at no cost can i trust them. I have been betrayed by a girl in past, though i have gotten over it. But the more i try to stay away from them, more do they try to come close to me. I am 25 and considering getting married. Was wondering whether i should discuss this to the girl before getting engaged.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): I would surely talk to my future wife about any problems you have with her sex. You could end up with a really costly divorce otherwise.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 You cant possibly hate all women in the world, there's like 3 billion of them! Not all of them are jerks. You've been hit hard by betrayal and maybe you're not as over it as you believe. I think you should discuss it with your fiance (to be?) but definitely dont say you hate all women!:-P tell her you've been betrayed in the past and that its now harder for you to trust women as a result. If she's a nice person, she'll understand and should be able to help you trust her atleast which is totally important
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reader, flatpack84 +, writes (10 February 2007):
 You can't hate all women if you're considering getting married to one of them! Talk about your past with your current partner and try to explain how you have been hurt in the past. Unfortunately there are some mean people in the world (including men) who have let others down, but not everyone is like this.Try not to let one bad experience ruin the rest of your life, move on and find happiness with another, i seems like you've got a lot going for you if women still come flocking despite your attitude towards them!Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): The reason why you have a hatred for girls is because you were betrayed in the past by one and even though you've said that you got over the betrayal i think that it's still in your memory and that you think that all girls are like that. But truth to be told they are not. You might think that i'm saying that because i'm one myself but it's only some women that betray men, and vice versa. Anyway girls try to get even closer to you the more you stay away from them is because they think that you are playing hard to get, not that you hate them. Any how, before you get married i think that you should discuss this with your girlfriend. She should understand once you have told her about the betrayal of another girl.
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