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I had sex with my best friend and guess what? I'm now I'm in love with her.... so am I a lesbian?

Q.   hi, im 17years old and i have a problem... and recently found that i have begun to have odd feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl. shes unbelievably pretty, smart, funny and i melt when she speaks to me, which is quite often as i see he...

A.   16 April 2009: I heard one thing on tv yesterday..."There is no such thing as a homosexual...just homosexual activity." I think that sums it up. I believe it too. Don't ruin your friendship. The situation may get worse befor it gets better. You're still ... (read in full...)

He's enthusiastic but doesn't orgasm. Where am I going wrong?

Q.   I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We're really close and love each other intensely. However, even though we've made love countless times, he still hasn't yet had an orgasm. What am I doing wrong? He really gets into sex wi...

A.   16 April 2009: Consider that maybe it's not you. It could be him. Possible groin injuries keep some men from ejaculating or keeping an erection. I know it's frustrating. I also know it's something you'd rather avoid having a conversation about, but if you want a ... (read in full...)

Lack of oral sex in a relationship...

Q.   I've been dating a girl for 2 years now, and we never have oral sex. She doesn't want me to do it for her, but I do want her to do it to me. I'm not selfish though, I'd go down on her 7 days a week if she'd let me. I love giving oral to women. ...

A.   16 April 2009: One of two things...either she has something going on down there and she doesn't want your mouth there OR she hasn't had a pleasurable experience with it and feels it's worthless...or (actually three things) she doesn't want to have to reciprocate, ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do when "doing a blowjob"

Q.   Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!...

A.   16 April 2009: Oops...didn't check out her age.... (read in full...)

Please help me, I don't wanna lose him, I love himm to death but I feel so guilty!

Q.   I hope you can help me, I'm a married woman age 21 years and I also have a 4 year old son! My problem is whenever my husband and myself are having sex I don't feel like it, but he never noticed it because I never let him see that, I know he loves ...

A.   16 April 2009: The incident occurred two years ago. Why would you want to re-open that whole can of worms? Are you afraid that he will find out or something?... (read in full...)

Is it just because I'm a teenager?

Q.   Is it just because I'm a teenager? I'm 15 and I feel very bad about myself. I'm chubby and hate my face, I've been told I am ugly and fat by boys and just started believing them... should I? My mom always tells me to ignore them but I just can't. ...

A.   16 April 2009: Never allow someone's opinion of yourself to become your own opinion of yourself. If it is something YOU want to do, then loosing a few EXTRA pounds is okay, but never hate your face. Own it! Confidence is the sexiest characteristic anyone can have. ... (read in full...)

What on earth do you think he's up to? It sounds very dodgy to me!

Q.   Hi, this is really weird. The other week I had a fight with my boyfriend, afterwards we made up and he made out he wasn't still mad, but he made this phone call in front of me just before I left his house. He mentioned a "sick plan" and some man - ...

A.   16 April 2009: Wow! It's surprising that that is all that bothers you. The entire situation is crazy. Why would a "boyfriend" pay someone else to sleep with his girl? No man wants to see his woman with another man. I think you just took the bait...for whatever ... (read in full...)

My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me.

Q.   My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me. I told my friend I don't mind if she asks him out. He said yes, but it was only to not really hurt her. So that's not really the problem, it's just that that lead to him not ...

A.   16 April 2009: Well, no one will care about how you feel until you do. Meaning, you're in this situation because you're not up front and honest. You're also in this situation because he's not up front and honest. Bottom line. Before you can be honest with anyone, ... (read in full...)

How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster???

Q.   I am very sensitive when it comes to having sex and find that I cum very easily... my boyfriend is the opposite and takes time to come... I get very frustrated and feel as if I'm not doing enough to please my boyfriend... How can I either stop ...

A.   16 April 2009: You can't really keep yourself from cumming unless you stop him...and I know you don't wanna do that. What's wrong with cumming multiple times? I can make my partner cum faster by talking to him. I know you might already do this, but that's w... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do when "doing a blowjob"

Q.   Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!...

A.   16 April 2009: Funny topic. My advice: 1) Make sure he's clean. The experience is more tolerable/enjoyable if he's fresh. 2)start slow. Guys hate it when you rush...like you're trying to get it over with. They like to get the impression that you're enjoy... (read in full...)

Should I Break the Cycle?

Q.   Seven months ago I met a very handsome man while hanging out with friends. A month into "dating" him, I found out that he was a professional athlete, something he did not want me to know. We continued as usual. After a while, he started to trav...

A.   16 April 2009: Thanks for all of your replies. All of them were equally helpful. To Gina: It wouldn't necessarily be considered "cheating" because he is single. I know him enough to know that he has a pretty big sexual appetite, so I know that he's sleeping... (read in full...)

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