My crush is suddenly avoiding me!
Q. I met my personal trainer end of March 2017 and immediately we clicked. We had so much fun together we would laugh all the time. He inspired me to push harder and even to go to the gym. Sometimes he would touch me in an unusual flirtatious way (but ...
A. 18 May 2017: Just move on. What do you want him to say? He can't really say much. Its not going to be business as normal with a girlfriend. Stop over thinking it and develop a new crush.... (read in full...)
We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...
A. 18 May 2017: You've been hooked my dear.. Start distancing yourself from this loser. Grow a backbone and get yourself some standards! ... (read in full...)
Is this kind of kiss usual?
Q. What does it mean if a guy kisses his hand and then touched your lips with the hand he has just kissed? No guy has done that 2 me before have always gone with a proper lip on lip kiss Yes I properly sound young and not very experienced but ...
A. 18 May 2017: I would say go with your gut instinct. He sounds like he is trying to be cool and more into style than substance, I would distance myself personally. Go out with someone who doesn't play daft games.... (read in full...)
How can I distance myself from a friend without hurting their feelings?
Q. I am currently a grad student in college. I used to be best friends with this girl all throughout middle school. We grew apart through highschool, and I am now a graduate in college. Half a year ago, I thought it would be cool if to reach out to her ...
A. 18 May 2017: Just ignore her, eventually she will get the message. Its a bit of a cop out but just think how annoyed you will be if it goes on and on and on....... (read in full...)
Is it over or not? Should I text her something? Try calling again?
Q. I don't know if it's over or not. She's 35. We met about a month ago and hit it off really well on our first date, so we've been seeing each other regularly since then. She recently invited me to see her at a dance competition. I met her friends ...
A. 5 December 2016: She wants to dump you. Let her make contact next, otherwise move on.... (read in full...)
I just found out my boyfriend's best female friend does porn to pay for college
Q. My boyfriends best friend is a girl which I've always been ok with because she was dating one of his friends and my boyfriend says that even though she is attractive, he doesn't find her attractive. however I've recently found out that she does porn ...
A. 5 December 2016: She doesn't want to f*** your boyfriend! Get a grip on your jealousy/ insecurities which WILL drive a wedge between you.... (read in full...)
Suspicious my boyfriend might be talking to other women
Q. I live with my boyfriend. I noticed his battery lost 10 % battery power overnight. Is this possible when you do not use the phone? I ask because it has happened twice this week. He said it just fell off the charger. It has never happened before....
A. 5 December 2016: Omg, you sound like a nightmare. If you trust him, trust him. If you don't why are you with him? Low battery could be, the battery is on its last legs, he left his 4G roaming on, which rapes battery power or he left loads of apps on. Get a grip. ... (read in full...)
Told him to forget it - he's married. Now I've change my mind
Q. OK, an old acquaintance, we coincidentally met in a new town, and had sex for two nights. We spent the 3days hanging out together. We parted as we went back to our respective towns. He called me for a chat everyday, claiming that he missed me. O...
A. 5 December 2016: You only have yourself to blame by sleeping with a married man. Which is LOW. Come on woman, get a grip on yourself, treat yourself with respect. Start behaving like an adult. The feelings will subside and you will get back to normal. Just be strong ... (read in full...)
Like him but he has a girlfriend
Q. I've been talking to this guy for a while now. It's been going really well and then he asks me on a date. However, we didn't be go on it because I found out he has a girlfriend. I've said I can't do this and we shouldn't talk. The problem is,...
A. 3 December 2016: Dont go there! Honestly, honestly, honestly don't do it. Be strong and the bigger person. Bin him off and find someone trustworthy.If he was decent he would break it off with his girlfriend before dating anyone else.... (read in full...)
I broke up with my ex, like a new girl but don't know if I should date her because it would ruin any future my ex and I might have
Q. I'm 18 and in my first year at uni. Me and my long term (1 year and 3 months) girlfriend moved to different areas of the country for uni (about 1hour 30mins by car apart) and due to a number of reasons (including distance, lack of time for each ...
A. 28 October 2016: Just give yourself time. Hang out with this new girl as friends.. Do what feels right. Your paths may cross again in the future with the ex, but no-ones knows what going to happen. Take each day as it comes, everything is a bit raw at the moment so ... (read in full...)
Guy in my class possibly likes me or no?
Q. So this guy sits next to me in my class. He's playful with me when we text and talk in class and everything, but the only times he will INITIATE contact is when it's something to do with our class/an assignment. We have met up before to work on ...
A. 28 October 2016: He's probably enjoying flirting again. Unless he is clear with you about his feelings I would act as friends only. Boys will totally spill their feelings when they want to. A text out of blue which isn't about work might be a little hint later on. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?
Q. Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...
A. 28 October 2016: He wants to have sex with you! He is a massive player and is enjoying the chase. I suspect (could be wrong) that as soon as he has sex with you you'll never hear from him again. ... (read in full...)
I'd like to get to know this girl better but I'm unsure how to do this
Q. I'm a guy, sophomore in high school, and took this girl to the homecoming dance. I asked her the night before just kind of randomly but she agreed to go so we went out to dinner and had fun at the dance. We spent the whole time there together and we ...
A. 27 October 2016: Just ask her if she wants to hang out. If she makes a crap excuse then she's not interested.... (read in full...)
BF got caught basically cheating, he hasn't reached out?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We have had trust issues because he got a girls number on a trip, and texted her flirting throughout and I found out about it. He said he made a dumb mistake and blah blah blah if I found out about ...
A. 26 October 2016: He hasn't reached out because he doesn't want to!!! C'mon woman... move on. Brush yourself down and be strong. Focus on some real problems or do some new stuff. He's a loser.... (read in full...)
Should I hang in there in this relationship? Or just express my feelings and move on?
Q. Sooooo it seems my estranged bf and I are done done. Short backstory, we've been friends for 10 years, we dated for 3 1/2 and last year I broke up with him. I was frustrated with our development, i didn't feel supported with help with bills and the ...
A. 26 October 2016: Listen to your friends. Get rid of him . He's weighing you down and start healing yourself asap. No-one wants an ' emotionally abusive broke insecure angry jealous butthurt boy' what on earth are you thinking? You have got lots going for going and ... (read in full...)
Married ex who I havent seen for 12 years wants to meet up to catch up
Q. Married ex who I havent seen for 12 years wants to meet up to catch up after reconnecting on facebook 2 mths ago, what does that mean? We werent really exclusive before, but just friends with benefits ( a lot of sexual connection between us) and ...
A. 25 October 2016: So I agree with the wise words of the all the other replies, definitely do not pursue this one. Bad news. There will always be men that tempt us.. but be strong.. don't give in. Be polite but tell him to jog-on. Best wishes.... (read in full...)
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