Should I just not talk to random girls?
Q. I am the type of guy who can easily have a friendly chat with strangers, both male and female. Once in a while, after it, I may ask a female out. The other day, I was waiting for a bus, and there was an older lady and a young girl there. As I was ...
A. 26 August 2013: If a guy commented on my clothes, I would probably assume he was hitting on me. Even though, I wish you could tell someone their clothes looked nice, without it being misinterpreted.... (read in full...)
Why is he fighting his feelings?
Q. My BF of 9 years split up with me about 4 months ago. I was very unaffectionate and had treated him badly. He got tired of it. Can't say I blame him. I mean we are talking about no intimacy for years! Yes, years. I was very unhappy with myself and ...
A. 26 August 2013: I just have to comment on your post, because something very similar happened to me about a year ago. In case you haven't seen my posts, I talk openly about how I have borderline personality disorder and how it ruined a three and half year ... (read in full...)
Do guys ever change their minds after rejecting a woman?
Q. Do guys ever change their mind after rejecting a woman, especially if they realise they've almost completely 'read her wrong' first time around? ...
A. 23 August 2013: Sure they do, just make sure you don't let your life get away from you as you wait on one guy to come back! Live for you :)... (read in full...)
Why is this old flame from the past still playing on my mind?
Q. I have been with my partner for a over a year and a half, we're happy together and we're planning a future together now. So why can't I get my ex boyfriend out of my head? I had a few relationships in the past and don't give any of my other exes a ...
A. 23 August 2013: I'm sorry you are going through this. I know how it is to be caught up on an ex. If it helps, though, I think you made the right decision to cut it off short.
In my opinion, I say just actively work on letting it go. If you find yourself dwelling... (read in full...)
Its been 8 months and my boyfriend won't have sex with me?
Q. I have known my current boyfriend for over 5 years. We were once very close friends with crushes on one another (however, not your traditional friends with benefits kinda thing) and have been dating for about 8 1/2 months, now. We love each other a ...
A. 23 August 2013: Yes, I have asked him. He says he just wants to wait and make it special and has even said once or twice that he wants to wait til marriage. Til marriage?? Scheisse! Yes, he is actually a virgin, so I'm trying my hardest to be respectful, but I ... (read in full...)
He almost got married during the time we were broken up and sometimes when I'm feeling really low it bothers me
Q. I got back with my ex for more than half a year after being apart for 1.5 years, and are currently quite stable. The reasons for him breaking up with me then are considered resolved, and we are prepared to make it work this time round. My only i...
A. 20 August 2013: There is a saying, "If you truly love something. Let it go. If it comes back, it is meant to be."
I don't know if I believe in all that love quote stuff, but there might be some truth to it. I say, the fact that you two are giving it another ... (read in full...)
Are boobs that important to guys?
Q. Hello! Ok so I am a 17 year old girl, and very small and thin... If any of you know who Ariana Grande is (singer/actress) I basically have the exact body type as her. Short, petite, and thin. Unfortunately that also means I really don't have boobs ...
A. 20 August 2013: To some jerks, yes, boob size is important, but steer clear and look for a real man, and it won't matter what size you are.... (read in full...)
Five years together and his soulmate, yet his actions bother me
Q. Hi. My bf and I have been together for almost 5 years. Because of work we have lived 2 hours away for the past year. He has said he wants to marry me and I am his soulmate. When his dad died a couple of weeks ago, he told me they were not having a ...
A. 20 August 2013: I would have thought that him telling you about the funeral served as asking you to be there. Perhaps he is wondering why you didn't come. Think about it before you write him off, I say. ... (read in full...)
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