Is it wrong to stay with a woman, even if you do not see long term potential?
Q. Basically, my GF of 2 years cheated on me with a stranger. She denied cheating and lied to my face until I confronted her with circumstantial evidence that eventually made her confess. Although she denies having sexual intercourse, she...
A. 16 October 2012: Well, just as a thought - why not have the chat and both of you lay your cards on the table as to what you both want...
Find out if she's going in a different direction than you. She may want the same thing, you never know.
And than, if she is lo... (read in full...)
Why do men never EVER approach me?
Q. I feel embarassed just typing this, but well... I am nineteen year old, college student, I am extremely outgoing, I have a lot of friends and I am quite popular with them. I am tomboyish as in "loving sports, fights and cars" but you wouldn't...
A. 16 October 2012: OKay - I don't usually do this, but i have to answer your question with a question (or several, actually) :
What is YOUR problem? Why do you wait for guys to approach you? IF you're so outgoing, than why not approach them yourself?
As for ... (read in full...)
What do I do now? I lied and told my boyfriend that I wasn't a virgin
Q. So this is the problem, this guy I really liked we met on a night out and instantly hit it off, we were attracted to each other so much and i don't know how this came out in our conversation but we ended up talking about how many people we slept ...
A. 16 October 2012: Honesty is the best policy.
Here's the cold hard truth - If he earnestly respects you, he'll respect the truth from you.
If after you tell him, and he rejects you - - - He's fit for the REJECT pile himself.
Underlying lesson in all of this: Don... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 16 October 2012: She's being unreasonable. Ask her to wear it.
I think in such a circumstance, it is worth having a 'talk' with her about.
Now on the flip side, and maybe this is getting more to the motive behind HER reaction... Maybe it isn't the ring she's n... (read in full...)
I am confused by his actions. Can a man concurrently and happily live with his wife, make love to his wife, and care about his children while occasionally having sexual affairs with men?
Q. My husband of 16 years of marriage has admitted to a gay affair and numerous indiscretions with men for the last 6 years. I was devastated and even though 8 weeks have passed I feel a little bit stronger. I have been receiving counselling to come ...
A. 14 October 2012: Maybe i'm losing something in translation here, but isn't marriage suppose to be between one man and one woman? Extra marital affairs (irregardless of what sex they are with) is "affairs".
Are you satisfied to allow him to cheat? Are you satisfie... (read in full...)
Lost my baby to SIDS in Feb. My husband is totally unsupportive to me and only wants sex. Is it time to leave and take my daughter with me?
Q. hey guys i have been married since 2007 we have a 3 yr old girl. When i met him i was so in love but then came him being outside all day with the guys. We lost the relationship we had He never has interest in finding a job to support us. It'...
A. 14 October 2012: You need grief counselling. He's probably grieving too in his 'cave man' way. Remember, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
However, I am also concerned with his lack of respect/support towards you - - - telling you "you're worthles... (read in full...)
He cheated on me with a prostitute! Will I ever be able to trust him again?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been now dating for 3 years, he cheated on me with a prostitute but told me everything that happened straight after and asked me for forgivness. Ive been trying so far to forgive him and move on but i just feel our ...
A. 14 October 2012: The fact that he came and confessed straight away is an indication of some remorse on his part. The fact that you want to forgive him probably means you love him 'unconditionally'.
CAUTION: Do not go easy on him. Make sure he recognizes the cons... (read in full...)
He cheated on me with a prostitute! Will I ever be able to trust him again?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been now dating for 3 years, he cheated on me with a prostitute but told me everything that happened straight after and asked me for forgivness. Ive been trying so far to forgive him and move on but i just feel our ...
A. 14 October 2012: The fact that he came and confessed straight away is an indication of some remorse on his part. The fact that you want to forgive him probably means you love him 'unconditionally'.
CAUTION: Do not go easy on him. Make sure he recognizes the cons... (read in full...)
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