I'm attracted to her and she is to me. But why does she need "a year" to get to know me?
Q. I am a 44 year old female. I just got a new job about 4 months ago. Through my job I have met a 31 year old female who has shared much her life story with me, things she said she hasn't even told her best friend. She told me she was bi-sexual but ...
A. 26 May 2005: Are you naturally attracted to drama queens? Or just out for an easy lay? Obviously she's juggling a bunch of balls and you are not one of her first, top priority. If you're just in it for some action, then play her game and do the hot and cold ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my fiance that I don't want to marry him?
Q. I am engaged. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but no longer love him, but can't find the heart to tell him it's over. Also I've met someone else who's in the army and I have feelings for him. He feels the same way. We've known each oth...
A. 26 May 2005: Tell him as soon as possible as a favor to him. Be honest, and let him deal with it.... (read in full...)
He has traits I don't care for. Can he change?
Q. My boyfriend is very chauvenistic, dominating, jealous and possessive. Can these traits be changed in a man? I love him, but I am very unhappy. How can I be smarter then him and change his ways without him thinking I am trying to out smart him? ...
A. 26 May 2005: Yes, they can be changed when given a lot of love and understanding. But first he must want to change that about himself. Helping him change is not about you giving in to his needs, rather it's about not putting up with it when he's being ... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me, but we're both afraid that his wife will make good on one of her threats!
Q. I need advice again. My best friend has now told his wife that he is in love with me. There was a terrible row over it of course. She asked me if I felt the same, and I told her I did. We never meant to hurt her. My friend has been unhappy for ...
A. 26 May 2005: Leave him, you home wrecker. Both of you are sinning. And a man who cheats will remain a cheater for the rest of his life, and you don't need to believe in kharma, but just notice it when it hits you in your face full force. What you do to others ... (read in full...)
Our relationship broke down, slowly, because of my stress. Now I hope we can get back together...
Q. ok I fell like I didn't give enough information last time, I was with this guy for about a year, everything was wonderful, we moved in together, we talked of marriage and children, and we were so happy.. then I got pregnant, had an abortion, went on ...
A. 26 May 2005: Dear Writer, First of all, ask yourself if he is what you need. What kind of man do you need in your life? It is different than what you want. If indeed everything about this guy is what you need, then you can go to the second question. How did ... (read in full...)
I think I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend, but don't know how to tell him...
Q. I am 14 and think I am ready to have sex with my 15 year old boy-friend but I don't know how to tell him. I knoq I am underage but we love each other and have been going out with each other for 11 months. Please help!!!...
A. 26 May 2005: If you don't agree with the first answer from a reader, then my advice is after you are sure you want to have sex with him, not just think, but know it in your heart without a doubt, then to maybe suggest watching porn together. That always puts ... (read in full...)
What can I do to heal my relationship?
Q. What steps can I take to redeem a troubled relationship?...
A. 26 May 2005: heal yourself first, and you will naturally heal your relationship. What is your limitations and faults and insecurities? Find those out and be aware when they are the ones doing the talking and acting, and then be able to see it for what they ... (read in full...)
In every relationship I've had, they fall in love with me, and I feel... nothing.
Q. Well, I will make this as short as possible. But, the problem is, it has been going on my whole life. I have always had really good relationships and all. I think it might be me... Let me explain. Every relationship I have gotten into has been lon...
A. 26 May 2005: Are you one of those girls who tolerate everything about your guy? You never fight or express disagreement or disappointment? That would make you a very easy person to get along with, but it could make you lose your good feelings for the guy. ... (read in full...)
When my husband tells his gay friend about our marital problems, should I worry?
Q. My husband has a real good friend for a while now. The friendship is even closer that we moved back to town. He confides with this person about our marital problems. My issue is his good friend is homosexual. It's a little uncomfortable for me to ...
A. 26 May 2005: Just in any relationships, be it a guy friend or a girlfriend or a gay friend, what you are uncomfortable with should be communicated to him. In this relationships of partnership, you both need to understand each other's concerns and needs, and on ... (read in full...)
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