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He says he can't do long distance but then says he will wait for me. What?

Q.   This is going to be kind of long, but I'll try to keep it as short as possible: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I just moved away to finish school (only 3 hours away from him). He told me from the beginning that he has trie...

A.   7 September 2011: My sis dated a guy who lived far away. Felt the same way. They talked all day and night then one day she snapped and broke up with him. Not saying that your situation is like hers but with time everything changes and ever wounds heal. You can... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex but I think I'm too young, what should I do?

Q.   Ok. So I know your going to complain about my age. :/ so please don't. See I have been dating this guy for 2 years from today. He is amazing and is always making me feel special about myself. He says that the love he has for me is uncomparable ...

A.   7 September 2011: Not ready? Don't do it. I promise you on my soul you will regret doing something you are not ready for. If he loves you then he will wait. If he doesn't he will move on to the next girl rather you give in or don't.... (read in full...)

He gets mad when I don't want sex!

Q.   Hey guys, i'm 15 and basically i've been with my 16 year old boyfriend for 3 and a half months now, and we started having sex 2 months into our relationship. since then we've had it 37 times. I don't know if its right but I feel completely taken for ...

A.   7 September 2011: It's your body. Do with it you please. He does not own you. There will be more and better guys for you who will wait....... (read in full...)

Male partner texting/sexual interactions with other men!

Q.   My partner and I have been together for over 20 yrs and have 2 children. I have recently discovered he has been txting men and has on at least 3 occasions had a head job from another man and has returned the favour - this is what he has admitted ...

A.   16 June 2011: Ugh. 0_0. Not normal heterosexual stuff but maybe normal bisexual or homsexual male stuff. Sorry. He has to be gay and just using you as a front.... (read in full...)

Should I apologize to my religious friend?

Q.   Well...I made an offensive joke to my friend who is trying to be religious now. Sometimes I'm a bit harsh and so I made a joke and I told her she cannot watch a movie with Witches and Wizards if she believes in God. (I said that because she told...

A.   14 June 2011: Wow. Yeah. She really got mad over that? haha You must have hit some nerve or been right on the nose with her. For her to just storm out. You can apologize if that is what you choose to do. But, hey how come she can say such judgemental things to ... (read in full...)

I like this guy but I don't want him to think I am easy. Any Advice?

Q.   I met this guy, X, through friends we both know(we go to different schools) We started talking alot on fb, and texted everyday, all day. The day before valentines day he told me he liked me, a lot. We met in person after 3 months(2 of our friends ...

A.   12 June 2011: Relax. Just go with the flow. Give him a little challenge. Just don't be extra desperate. Basically don't just say yes to everything, because that is boring and if a guy gets bored, then he will find something or someone else to entertain himself. ... (read in full...)

Was he asking to be friendly or was he jealous?

Q.   This guy i like asked me who my uncle and my uncle's friend were when he saw me out with them ( my uncle's friend is male too ). Do you think he was asking because he thought i was going out with one of them, and he was possibly jealous, or do you ...

A.   12 June 2011: Maybe...he is just curious. Did he ask nonchalant or persistent like he really wanted to know? A lot of people over analyze their crushes intentions and actions. Sometimes when someone does something it means nothing at all.... (read in full...)

She only likes me as a friend and I'm afraid I'm going to blow it and ruin our friendship!

Q.   i am 16 and this year has been full of stuff for me. I fell in love with this girl last year....who was in love with someone else as well...but that guy rejected her and went with another girl. I was her friend even before i started liking her...th...

A.   12 June 2011: Ok. Dude I totally feel your pain..... Tell her how you feel but do it subtle. DO NOT BE AGGRESSIVE! Just say, "Hey...I've been thinking about us dating... you know since we are so good together.'' See what she says and then if she says "Oh, we... (read in full...)

I want to be reassured that when I start college I'll make new friends

Q.   Hello everyone, I am 15 years old and well my life seems quite boring. I go to school come home, do homework then whatever else, at the weekend I don't see anyone from school, I have friends but we never go out at the weekend or anything, they nev...

A.   12 June 2011: No one can guarantee you will make friends. I'm not a psychic you will just have to like yourself first and gain some real confidence and join groups that you like and strike up convos with other people. If you have a connection then ask them to ... (read in full...)

Husband cheated with friend and he blames me!

Q.   My husband in the navy and he was on deployment but before he left we decided we were going to have a threesom together and we look for the perfict women and we thought we found her but she flaked out so he left. he was deployed with a friend of ...

A.   12 June 2011: A. Either stay with him and accept this woman as his mistress B. Tell him it's either you or this "friend" of yours C. Seperate D. Divorce and find someone else and never participate in a threesome again. It's your life so its up to you to... (read in full...)

How long should I wait before asking another girl out?

Q.   I broke up with my gf on Friday and I just wanted some peoples opinion on how long should I wait before i ask another girl out. I wasn't going to do it straight away but some others opinions please?...

A.   12 June 2011: Do it when the time feels right but if you do not want to hurt your ex's feeling then I'd say about 2 months. Dude.... (read in full...)

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