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writes:Ok. So I know your going to complain about my age. :/ so please don't. See I have been dating this guy for 2 years from today. He is amazing and is always making me feel special about myself. He says that the love he has for me is uncomparable to the love I have for him. But here lately he has been wanting to have sex with me...The problem?? I'm only 13. I don't think I'm ready for that. But I don't want to break up with him. I love him. So what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 September 2011):
 if you don't feel ready (and it's good you should not feel ready at 13) you say NO
IF he does not respect that, he does not respect you and he is not a good boyfriend for you.
NO MAN who loves a woman forces her to do something she does not want to do.
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reader, cinc71  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 if he really loves you he'll wait until you're ready even if it takes years. don't get pressure by him and if he dumps you he wasn't the ONE. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): Your smooth talking lothario has nearly made his way into your knickers but as you say, you are not ready. You must make this perfectly clear. Under no circumstances should you give in just to please him. That would be really bad news for you. Tell him that the patience he has shown is no where near the patience you have in waiting until you have found the right man and the right time.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 I don't complain about your age , it's the judicial system of your country which does. You are way under age according to the law.
Anyway, this is easy . Piece of cake. You don't feel ready, then don't do it.
Give your bf the chance to put his money where is mouth is : if his love for you is so incomparable etc. etc., he'll wait for you to be ready without making a fuss.
If he leaves you.... if he leaves then you'll know that he did not really care and all those nice words meant nothing.
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reader, PrinceCharming +, writes (7 September 2011):
Dont do it , i hear plenty of girls say that they should of waited, i even hear horny guys say that it was a big mistake. Your time will come but now its too early. After you have sex with him he could break up with you . It better to be heart broken with your virgenity still then hating his guts for taking it from you.
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reader, FatTony89  +, writes (7 September 2011):
Not ready? Don't do it. I promise you on my soul you will regret doing something you are not ready for.
If he loves you then he will wait. If he doesn't he will move on to the next girl rather you give in or don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): If you don't think you're ready, tell him that. If he pressures you still, then he maybe doesn't love or respect you as much as you thought.
A guy who truly loves you will wait until you're comfortable.
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