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Give yourself more respect. You are worth it!

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30 January 2010: I haven't been on here very long, but most of the stories I have seen are about boys mistreating girls! In my opinion us girls don't give boys enough credit, I say boys! What i mean is the nice boys. Yes girls, there is some out there. Yes, they are ...

Will I ever get over this forbidden love?

Q.   this is so sad i know, but i feel in love with this teacher at school. i am 15 and i know that he's 24. i am fully aware that nothing will ever happen between us, and i wouldnt dream of saying or doing anything - im not tht stupid. i realise ...

A.   1 February 2010: I'm 15 too and I know there are teachers in my school that I like to look at. But You say you feel you're in love with this teacher but I think it's the idea of an older good looking and mature man that we like. I'm sure half the girls at your ... (read in full...)

He said "Hey" to me and asked how was I doing..so is he interested?

Q.   ok so every morning on my way to class i pass this guy on the sidewalk. at first we just smiled at each other and made eye contact but last week i worked up the courage to say hi. the next time i saw him, he said hey to me and asked how i was doing. ...

A.   31 January 2010: Well I think the smile is a great sign. I'm sure you know what boys are like. Most of them if they weren't interested would look away and not even bother to make eye contact. I think boys are hard, you don't talk to them they think you're not ... (read in full...)

He's odd and I think he fancies me. I fancy him too so how do I tell him?

Q.   there's this guy. he's really awkward, he does and says strange things. i just find it incredably alluring.. i have the biggest crush on him. he sits with me in class. i think maybe he's interested.. he pokes my hand with pencils, teases me, gets...

A.   31 January 2010: You say he does these things to attract your attention, which shows he's flirting. You say does he like you, I think that anwser may just be yes. You say you're scared of rejection yes? but it sounds like he has the same problem. Men sometimes feel ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and I need advice on how to talk to girls!!

Q.   Im 16, i never had a girlfriend or even got my first kiss yet. its not hard for me to talk to my girls that are my friends, but i get super nervous and shy around really hot girls idk. what should i do to "break out of the shell" and also, i rush ...

A.   31 January 2010: I'm 15 and i know that if any guy made the effort to come and talk to me then they're worth talking to. Don't worry about being shy or nervous, just be yourself. The key is to let her know that you actually want to speak to her. She wont be creeped ... (read in full...)

Feeling sad about my experiences in high school! Is this a precedent for the rest of my life?

Q.   This is pretty shallow compared to a lot of people's problems, and all the chaos in the world, but it really bugs me after all these years. When I was in high school, I never went to prom. It's not a big deal, but it makes me a little sad becau...

A.   31 January 2010: This could sound silly, but maybe your happiness could come in a different way. You say you teach at a school? so does that mean your involved in organising the prom? you know it is such a great feeling helping people, so why don't you see the girls ... (read in full...)

How do I tell the girl of my dreams how I feel?

Q.   hi im 17 years old and not the most confident of guys. i have liked this girl now for 5 months and have not pluked up the courage to talk to her. we have been texting etc for the past few weeks and have arranged to go out. but every time i try to ...

A.   31 January 2010: I think you have summed this question up very well for yourself. "The Girl Of Your Dreams" you know any girl would be over the moon to hear that and would have the upmost respect for the boy that said it to her. You're scared of rejection, but how ... (read in full...)

He ignores me when he has a girlfriend but makes out with me when he doesn't! I like him, should I wait to be hurt again?

Q.   my bestfriends ex recenly started talking to me..well in october.. after a while we started hanging out and the ended up kissing. he was my first kiss. we continued to make out at least once a week, and my friend knew. as we kept going he started ...

A.   30 January 2010: Have you ever heard the term 'Bit On The Side'? I'm sorry to say this but that is exactly what he is treating you as. Listen, I know it may not seem like it but not all boys are the same. This boy may treat you well when he hasn't got a girlfriend, ... (read in full...)

I'm confused! Am I gay?

Q.   Am i gay? I'm 19 and was with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have always looked at girls and been able to openly say 'oh they are hot', and i've kissed girls drunkenly at parties but nothing more. I have fantasized about having sex with a girl and thin...

A.   30 January 2010: You say you're confused, but to me there is nothing to be confused about. It's just the matter of finding the right girl. You say you watch lesbian porn but that doesn't turn you on, yes? that's just the thing. That stuff isn't real, you think there ... (read in full...)

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