Have I messed up my chances of getting my ex back by having a one night stand?
Q. Hey people, I really need advice, My and my girl broke up 3weeks ago and I been working to get back with my girlfriend for the past 3 weeks. Basically I'm doing this No Contact thing for about 30days so I could get myself together and get her to w...
A. 2 May 2010: No point in telling her. It will not change the past and will only hurt her (plus techincally you are not together with this girl so it is not really cheating). Our pasts belong to us. So, cover the trail and take it to the grave... (read in full...)
We have a child together but she says we can't have a relationship until I'm 'saved'
Q. Hi I'm confused in my relationship and not sure were it is going. My girlfriend and I met about 18months ago, she had three children to her previous partner, and we now have a child of our own, which I'm real happy for. We love other a lot ...
A. 1 May 2010: Do not compromise your beliefs under any circumstances. There is integrity to being accepted for who you are rather than for who you are supposed to be in order to fit someone's criteria. We are lucky to live in Europe where people are free to ... (read in full...)
My fiance wants to adopt my eldest son but biological father needs to sign forms though he's conpletely out the picture...
Q. Heya, Well I'm a busy full time mum of two beautiful, adorable little boys. My eldest is nearly 18 months and my youngest just turned 7 weeks. I'm very happily engaged to my partner whome I met about 16 months ago now. Althought our eldest son isn'...
A. 19 April 2010: I agree with honeypie. Get a lawyer and serve him. He will sign. It will potentially save him tons of money and any half decent attorney will tell him that. Just don't let him dangle you around with it.Remind him it is for his own benefit and ... (read in full...)
Why am I a people victim?
Q. Would like to know why I am a people victim and what I can do stop this from happening. I got bullied by my dad from the age of 3, he would call me names and get in my head. Then I had it all frew school, plus I had it at work and now I'm getting ...
A. 19 April 2010: ... it probably is because this is what you EXPECT. You expect people to stab you in the back and abuse you because you don't know better. And when you expect something you usually end up getting it. I would also dare go as far as to say that every ... (read in full...)
Can you undo a lifetime of conditioning???
Q. I'm very uncomfortable around gay people. I'd hate to describe myself as Homophobic but maybe that would be accurate. I know the usual answer to something like this is: maybe youre secretly gay yourself. But I'm 100% sure I'm not secretly gay. I ...
A. 17 April 2010: I for one need to offer you credit for acknowledging the problem and wishing to deal with it. Every negative trait in our personality can change but we have to be the ones to change it. The best way is to chat to a gay person and, as the poster ... (read in full...)
Childhood stalker is claiming I am her daughters father - but I am not!
Q. I think I have an original story. I was 19 and away at college. When I came home for the summer my dad took me over to his friends house. I went to school with his kids. We all took the bus together. I was friends with his son who was one ...
A. 12 April 2010: Well, I hardly ever post here but I am an attorney and I can assure you that there are many remedies available to you. It of course depends on where you are at as laws tend to differ from state to state and country to country. One thing that pops in ... (read in full...)
What changed in our relationship so suddenly?
Q. Hi everyone. Some objective perspective would be greatly appreciated here. I have been dating this guy for four months now. We were friends for two years though saw each other rarely as he had been working outside europe at the time. At first I was ...
A. 25 June 2009: Thanks for the response. My gut is also telling me the same thing. Today he sent me another text out of the blue. It was indifferent, a far cry from what I am used to. Like he is talking to his wife of 15 years, not a brand new girlfriend he spent 2 ... (read in full...)
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