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Is it truly possible to forgive betrayal? And if so, how does one start?

Q.   I've been with my partner for 5 months now. In the past she cheated twice even though we talked about working out our issues. i still can't get over the fact that she cheated. There's no trust here anymore, and she hasn't put forth any effort to ...

A.   17 March 2011: She cheated twice in 5 months. So in 1 year she will have cheated 5 times. Forget her, she can't control herself. What if she had never been caught? How do you know she told you everything. RUN AWAY. Find a nice that does NOT put out on the 1st, ... (read in full...)

Threesome gone wrong.....

Q.   Recently my girlfriend has been talking about a threesome with another girl and I wanted to let this happen because it was one of her fantasies. So by chance my birthday was last month and we final had our chance. She was not happy with the o...

A.   17 March 2011: This is the BEST thing that could have happened to you. Threesomes are bad for relationships and love. They are good for parties and prostitutes, and bachelor parties. Tell her you did not like it and would not like to play these games again. If she ... (read in full...)

He always keeps me waiting!

Q.   When my boyfriend arranges to pick me up when we go out he is ALWAYS late. If he says 7.30 then its usually 8.00 o clock. He texts and says 8.00 then he will text at 8.oo and say make it 8.15 or sometimes he just turns up half an hour later and says ...

A.   17 March 2011: Boys are dumb and don't take hints. Next time he says 8:00, ask him "does that really men 8:30?, because your always late my love" see what he says... (read in full...)

How do I tease him a bit more?

Q.   What can I do to tease my boyfriend a little more? He usually initiates removal of clothes, but lately as soon as we're naked, and I start heading down south to give him some oral loving he says tease me a bit more. I asked him about it and he ...

A.   17 March 2011: Men are visual creatures. Get some stocking and a baby doll. Tease him and don't let him touch you too close in this outfit. Slowly let him get closer and closer. Just when he's about to kiss you, turn away. Keep this up for 20 minutes and he will ... (read in full...)

I want to reinvent my life completely but don't know where to start?

Q.   Im in such a dilemma. It all started when i was 15 years old and i got into a relationship with someone who was 19 years old. Looking back on it now it was an abusive relationship emotionally. I was in my last year of middle school, i stopped ...

A.   17 March 2011: You have a LONG life ahead to re-invent yourself. I did it at 44, got divorced, became a health nut, found a new girl, started a new business, and I am in love. The answer is very simple. Picture the person you want, and picture him being wi... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and sex is daunting!

Q.   I am 19 years old and i am still a virgin. I am ready to finally have sex but i find it very daunting and being that intimate with someone is rather scary. I have someone i would like to be my first but i keep avoiding it because of this. How ca...

A.   17 March 2011: Take it slow and easy. First do only touching, touch each other, more and more intimately each session. Assume this will take a month or two. Once you get used to touching each other, then he can stimulate you with his penis. After doing this for ... (read in full...)

Normal guys don't turn down hot girls, do they? Is he lying or gay?

Q.   Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl and I like(d) a guy in my class, we really started talking a lot more this year and I know that he liked me a couple of years ago. So There were signs that he liked me too, like , he wrote to me and he never had ...

A.   17 March 2011: There are 2 possibilities: He is unable to respond, or he is unwilling to respond. If he is unable, he is probably afraid or inexperienced. if you are as attractive as you say and he is timid, then this is the likely scenario. If he is unwi... (read in full...)

What happened to my G-spot?

Q.   ok so i'm 23, and i'm kinda having a problem. When my bf fingers me he can't seem to find my G-spot.He used to be able to find it. I'm kinda scared..whats wrong with me?...

A.   17 March 2011: You need to do some research, or he does. Search the net for "how to stimulate the G-spot". I can make my girl reach orgasm in 20 minutes with my finger in her Gspot. But it is always hidden until she gets excited. So I have to stimulate her ... (read in full...)

When choosing someone to marry, do you use your heart or your head?

Q.   I really need help... I have been with my boyfriend for more than 5 years. We have gone through so much together. We really had our trials but in the end what got as through is the foundation of our relationship. He's really my best friend. My ...

A.   17 March 2011: Your kidding right? You CANNOT marry someone you don't love and aren't having passionate sex with. You or him will cheat the first opportunity you have, and you will feel more guilty? You'd be better off moving in with your dad or brother, who could ... (read in full...)

TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period?

Q.   TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period? My bf will sometimes do it but close to the end where you cant tell at all. Or shower sex is a plus but do men not like it?.. does it feel any different to the guy?...

A.   17 March 2011: I love my girl, and she loves me. And we love sex. So what, she gets hornier when she's on her period. Its awkward because of the towel thing and its messy. But when were all done we shower and kiss. And we still love each other. If she does not ... (read in full...)

Why am I a bad person because I use prostitutes?

Q.   Dear All, I am going to ask few questions which might offend some of you if they do please pardon me and try understanding my query. I have few basic questions about life which I want you to answer but before that let me give you some insight abo...

A.   17 March 2011: I was in a bad relationship and I ended seeing prostitutes to feel better. Its totally understandable, everybody has needs and your not a sinner because you satisfied those needs, your just human. The real problem is, you need a woman who ... (read in full...)

Falling in love with a much younger woman...what to do?

Q.   Hello all. I'm seeking advice on a very heart wrenching problem I'm trying to sort out. I'm a 36 year old man who works with a 23 year old woman. Both her and I are in exclusive dating relationships but not married. I think it's safe to say that ...

A.   17 March 2011: I am 46 and fell in love with a young and beautiful 23 year old woman last year. I am divorced and she was available. At first we didn't care about age, but as she fell more and more in love it became an issue for her. But we discussed it, and I am ... (read in full...)

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