My friends hassle us like we should be "serious" in our relationship, but I'm only 12!
Q. Hi I am the one who wrote about my boyfriend not acting like a boyfriend and I totally accept that he might not be ready yet and that he's comfortable where he is. But my friends are bothering us into acting like we're 16 and having a relationship, ...
A. 5 June 2006: Oh Punkin, please be careful with those friends of yours-- it really doesn't sound like they're being very good buddies right now. Listen to your heart. It's very hard when you've got all your friends pressuring you right now, but in the end YOUR ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with a break-up?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for about 12 years and he has just split up with me i feel like my life has just ended help!!!!...
A. 5 June 2006: Definitely surround yourself with people that love you and people you trust. They will be the ones keeping you down to Earth, making sure that you don't do anything rash that you wouldn't normally want to do-- aka smashing windows or faces, hehe. ... (read in full...)
I still like my ex but he has a new girlfriend
Q. ok. this will probably be long. i have liked this lad for 4 years. we met at school, and he has always felt the same. however, we didnt actually get together until january this year. it was brilliant, and i really grew close to him. but after 2 ...
A. 21 May 2006: You WILL meet people who will like you just the same, if not more. This boy sounds like he just missed an amazing opportunity, dumping you after only 2 weeks!!!! What kind of guy does that? It will be both mentally and emotionally healthy for you ... (read in full...)
I made a terrible mistake while blacked out drunk and slept with my boyfriend's brother...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for i would say 6 months. It feels longer than that though because we were basically dating before but he just never asked me out. My mom let my boyfriends brother stay at our house because he got kicked out. ...
A. 13 March 2006: Sweetheart... forget what Martini has said. It's going to be hard dealing with this... but confide in your mother. She's letting this person live under the same roof as you, and she has the power to kick him the Hell out. You're not safe around h... (read in full...)
My husband cheated twice this last summer, but thinks I should be over it by now!
Q. I found out a few months ago that my husband of over a year cheated on me at least twice over the summer. I had moved out of our apartment but we sort of reconciled and he acted and talked as if we were back together. He went away on a trip and...
A. 4 January 2006: Get the HELL OUT.
It will only hurt you more and make you repeatedly feel used if you allow this to go on. Now it's your turn to call the shots babe, and to stop the pain. Get out.
xo,
KC... (read in full...)
Why did things turn so cold between us?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. He graduated from college last December and moved away while I tried to stay behind without him and finish my schooling like I had always intended. Well, I was lost without him. I ...
A. 20 December 2005: It sounds like you guys need to communicate more. Your confusion may be easily cleared up by sitting down with your boyfriend for an hour or two and having a good talk.
Also, it seems as if he knows he's ready to move on. It's hard to admit to y... (read in full...)
Is he really playing me or is he just trying to make me jealous? What's up with this guy??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months now.We dated in the past too. Well he is telling me that he cheated on me and he is also telling my cousin that he is playing me.After a while he tells us that he is just joking and we can't take a ...
A. 20 December 2005: Give him a hell of a boot, sweetheart. If he's telling your cousin one thing and you another, he's not trustworthy in the first place. Honesty and trust are two main principles in which a healthy relationship is built.
Plus, why would you want... (read in full...)
My gf complains that sex is too painful-how can I make it pleasurable for her?
Q. My girlfriend complains that sex is painful for her. I have tried several different positions and techniques but I cannot seem to find anything that works. She says that the length of my penis is the problem ( I measure in at 8 inches ). I have not ...
A. 15 December 2005: In addition to the help found here, I'd also like to add that maybe your girlfriend should go for a checkup at her gynecologist's. A friend of mine, going in for a check up, found that she had a false entry-way to her cervix... when she engaged in ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my wonderful guy or go back to my ex-husband...who treated me and the kids badly?
Q. I have been with my husband for five years. We are know in the process of getting divorced and i have sinced moved on with a wonderful man.It has been 9 months since me and my husband have been together .well my question is i think i might want to ...
A. 6 December 2005: "A leopard never loses it's spots"... is that how the saying goes? Well, however it goes, it's a wise one. You shouldn't be even contemplating returning to this ex-husband... if he treated you and your kids like crap and left you all miserable, ... (read in full...)
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