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writes: ok. this will probably be long. i have liked this lad for 4 years. we met at school, and he has always felt the same. however, we didnt actually get together until january this year. it was brilliant, and i really grew close to him. but after 2 weeks, he said he still had feelings for someone else, and it ended. now he is texting me saying he misses me etc but has a girlfriend. what am i supposed to do? or think? is he trying to make me jealous or trying to see how much i really like him or what? i really love him and would do almost anything to have him back. also, i had a few personal problems in the past but he didnt care about that and just accepted me the way i am. im afraid that i will never meet anyone who will accept me the way he did? please help!
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reader, matron +, writes (21 May 2006):
 Hi, if he likes and misses you as much as he say's he does ask him to be with you, he cant have his cake and eat it, it has to be all or nothing for a relationship to work.Think about it, he still fancied someone else and you split up so if he has decided its you he wants then let him prove it, let him end his current relationship sort his head out a bit and if he still feels the same way about you, and you still want to make a go of it then meet up and take it from there. Try not to get involved when he's with someone else, put yourself in their place, it's really not a good feeling when someone cheats on you, it's not that special being the other woman either, after all who wants to be second best!! Make it clear its his call. Good luck LoLx
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reader, DrumMeOver +, writes (21 May 2006):
 You WILL meet people who will like you just the same, if not more. This boy sounds like he just missed an amazing opportunity, dumping you after only 2 weeks!!!! What kind of guy does that? It will be both mentally and emotionally healthy for you to move on from this guy, because obviously he has problems trying to keep his desire for other girls in check. He sounds like one of those guys who only wants what he can't have-- believe me, there are TONS of those people out there. Good luck sweetie, stay strong.
KC
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): I don't mean to piss on the fire of love, but it sounds like very one sided love. How exactly did he accept you if he broke up with you after two weeks and went straight to another girl?!?
In regards to what does he mean, you are just gonna have to ask him in no uncertain terms what it is that he wants. Just dont be a doormat to this guy.
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reader, Minnie001 +, writes (21 May 2006):
Hello There I'm Sorry About Your Ex And The Way He Treats You, I Had The Same Thing Happen To Me. So When He Tex Me I Didn't Listen I Got On With My Life, My Ex Didn't Like That At All. When He Split From His Girlfriend He Came Back To Me I Told Him That He Can Have 1 Last Chance. We Have Been Together Now For 8 Years. I Don,t Know If This Will Work For You Even If It Doesn't You'll Have Allot More Blokes After You. Good Luck
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