She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...
A. 16 September 2007: Hey - her behaviour was unacceptable. If it was me I'd talk to her and tell her she'd hurt my feelings, if she doesn;t apologise and keeps up the jibes save yourself the bother and end the relationship. Don't let this knock your confidence - I'm ... (read in full...)
Could this be the "marriage question" in disguise? I was a bit taken aback...
Q. Could this be the 'marriage question' in disguise? My boyfriend whom I have been with for a year now with a lot of ups and downs, told me, over dinner: 'Do you know that you are my love? Our relationship has changed drastically and I now fe...
A. 15 September 2007: It would appear so! But maybe on that night he just wanted you to know how much you mean to him - which is also fantastic. If he doesn't pop the question soon and you want him to; don't be too disappointed because now you know he is serious about ... (read in full...)
I aborted the child of a married man I had an affair with... What would you do?
Q. i had an affair with a married man for one year. i fell pregnant and he said it wasn't the right time for us to be having children but we would when i no longer worked with him and i had my own flat. i had the abortion, reluctantly but then he ...
A. 15 September 2007: If he is a married man and still in his marriage, I would speculate that you were just a bit on the side. I'm sorry if this seems harsh - but its common for married men to give a girl the "I'm unhappy with my wife, she doesn't understand me, I'll ... (read in full...)
This relationship put me so down that I hate myself and don't care how he treats me anymore. Help.
Q. how can you just leave some one when youre so lonely and sad all the time and have nothing going for your self ?????????? how can you pick up your heart and leave if in the relationship you were put so down low that you hate your self and dont ca...
A. 15 September 2007: Hi. I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It could be that your guy has some emotional issues he needs sorting; does he have low self esteem? Was his father bad to his mother, and is this why he thinks his behaviour towards women is acceptable? If ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or am I getting played? He makes me buy everything while he almost never pays.
Q. I got a question, If your birthday is coming up and your fiance says hes kinda broke and last year he got you nothing and has never really bought you nothing. but hes birthday is 2 months away and you ask him want he would want and he brings...
A. 15 September 2007: Boy! 2 words - "meal ticket". This guy sounds like a waster, I can appreciate that some people have more money than others but this is just plain ridiculous. If you love this guy then tell him how you feel - don't marry him if you feel this will be ... (read in full...)
My fantasy is about my partner thinking of another guy! Why? In all honesty, it seems rather twisted to me!
Q. I am in a monogamous gay relationship with my partner of 10 years. He is 50, I am 44. He works in an environment where all of his co-workers are male and one of them is a 20 year-old straight guy I'll call Jack. Although my partner hasn't admitted ...
A. 14 September 2007: Hey - as far as I can see maybe you feel insecure about this other guy - maybe you feel he has more to offer than you? If you have been with your partner for 10 years I'm sure theres no need to be worried. However, sexual fantasies are just ... (read in full...)
I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?
Q. Hey, I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?...
A. 14 September 2007: Hey - as a young gay guy myself I always found it hard to find someone trusting - especially while I was at school. The important thing is to get to know people in your class, maybe the friends you have already and then assess whether they would ... (read in full...)
Want to turn a straight guy bi and I have a boyfriend...
Q. If you have a boyfriend and you love him so much that you'd do anything to be with him and you want to turn a straight guy bi, is it still cheating even if you don't want to date him?...
A. 14 September 2007: Well firstly - you can't "turn" anyone bi if they aren't interested. Leave him alone and concentrate on your boyfriend, although it seems if you're wanting to do things with others, there are problems in the relationship and maybe its time to do ... (read in full...)
How can I build my tolerance so I don't go so quickly?
Q. I cant really control myself while having sex. I dont last long while having sex and i feel embarrased and ashamed because i cant really please a girl that well. Any advice on what i can do to help build my tolerance so i dont go so quickly?...
A. 14 September 2007: Hey - believe it or not, most girls don't orgasm through penatrative sex - try to spend lots of time on foreplay (oral, mutual masturbation, kissing etc) and have open communication - ask her what she likes, tell her to tell you what she doesn't ... (read in full...)
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