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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I got a question,If your birthday is coming up and your fiance says hes kinda broke and last year he got you nothing and has never really bought you nothing.but hes birthday is 2 months away and you ask him want he would want and he brings up something that costs alot plus you are pregnant and he asked you to marry him with no ring and then asked you to take love payments on both rings his and yours plans to make you spend all you have on the wedding and pay hardly nothing what does this mean ?????????does he love me or am i getting played ???????
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 Unfortunatly honey, you seemed to of fallen for a player, hes using your feeling for him as means to get what ever he pleases, whilst using pathetic excuses to avoid doing the same for you.
This isnt love honey you deserve so much better, being in love and sharing a life is suppose to be a joint experience and it never works when only one person is putting into it. Im sorry hun but it wont matter what you do youd just be wasting your time and MONEY!!
Marry someone who treats you as a equal that what you deserve. BEST OF LUCK xxx
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reader, dont_play_nice_ +, writes (15 September 2007):
Boy! 2 words - "meal ticket". This guy sounds like a waster, I can appreciate that some people have more money than others but this is just plain ridiculous. If you love this guy then tell him how you feel - don't marry him if you feel this will be the way it will always be. For example, is he studying to better himself? Looking for a job? As a pregnant woman you can't do it on your own, and he will have to cough up sooner or later for child maintenance at least. If he really is broke, and you're not too materialistic and just want to know he cares, why not suggest you both make home-made gifts for eachothers birthday this year? If he agrees then he loves you, if he doesn't and still insists on his expensive present; then you're just being used and should get out while you can and find someone who deserves you! Good luck.
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