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... Send *olla18 a private message | | | *olla18's profile:Hi everyone, I think i'm a good listener an I will always do my best to answer honestly. This may some times mean that ppl get an answer that were the opposite to what they were hoping. Meaning that if I don't agree with the other answers you have been given then I wont just put the same sort of thing so I look better, I will answer your questions in my own words an not be influenced by others.
I have children of different ages, so I think that helps if i were to give advice to the younger members of the site.
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He's too big, or I'm too tight... Either way, sex is difficult. Help!
Q. this is embarrasing but i have to ask. Me and my boyfriend have been together along time. he is about 6'3 and i am 4'9... We tried having sex b4 but he was too big or i was to tight...either way it didnt work. so he tried fingering me with mor...
A. 23 September 2008: hi,
yes i know what you mean....the larger guy can hurt when you have intercorse....
my advice to you is talk to him.....1st compliment him on his size....but tell him this can cause you some disscomfort.....there for ask him if he will take ... (read in full...)
Me, my wife and our girlfriend...happily ever after?
Q. Okay, here is the situation. My wife of nearly ten years fell in love with a woman after a period of time, where it was mostly just playful and some physical stuff. It was not intended and I always thought my wife was bi curious, but she obvi...
A. 16 September 2008: hi,
yes what your experiencing is whats called a "polyamorous relationship"
it is a lot more common than what you might think to be honest. I did a little research on it a while back as it were something i stumbled upon from reading some one... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 2 September 2008: Hi,
their all right honey, get out as fast as you can.....
GOOD LUCK.....sounds like your'll need it!!!!... (read in full...)
I have been getting very weird symptoms but I don't know what's happening to me!
Q. Hi everyone I've been feeling kinda sick lately... I'm not too sure how to explain it but I'm going to try. Lately I've felt really tired (school just started bak)and kinda dizzy ... having headaches all day and kinda feeling like I'm going to ...
A. 30 August 2008: hi, this could be normal an known as pmt.....meaning pre-menstral tention....this can cause headaches and bad cramps..... tbh my advice to you would be to go to the optitions, even if its just to rule it out its best to get it checked out........ (read in full...)
Her mum is my dad's cousin, is it ok to date her?
Q. i met a girl in a pub, and went out with her a few times, i'v now found out that her mum, is my dads cousin, is it ok to carry on seeing her...
A. 25 June 2008: hi,
I dont see anything wrong with both of you seeing each other if you both like each other. There are no laws forbidding it an it is legal to marry should you want to.
I wish you both all the luck in the world.....xx
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How do I deal with a crush that's wrong?
Q. I hope someone can advise what to do for the best. I`ve just recently found out a younger female cousin of mine has got a very big crush on me and its left me stunned. She was having a meal with my mum and two of my aunties (one of them is her ...
A. 25 June 2008: hi,
being with your cousin is no great shame, an is legal in the UK aswell. The very reason i know this is that im in a relationship with my 1st cousin, so all this i have done plenty of research on in the past.
why shouldnt you be happy if ... (read in full...)
Having sex with my first cousin.
Q. Hey Last night me and my cousin got a bit drunk and we started making out, even tho we stopped a few times saying this isn't right.. but still we kept doing it. Today she told me that she wants to have sex with me and that she can't believe s...
A. 24 May 2008: Hi, i know how you feel i truly do. Im in a relationship with my 1st cousin aswell. There is no reason why you shouldnt be together. Its not incest, an if its good enough for the royals in England then no-one should judge you. Some of the religons ... (read in full...)
Nervous about sex. Scared to do it for the first time.
Q. i have never had sex before and i'm kind of scared to do it for the first time. my boyfriend really wants to have sex but i don't think im ready. i really love him but i don't want to go that far. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. ...
A. 18 May 2008: Hi, you say you have been with this boy for like 3 yrs? If your relationship has lasted this long, then the chances are he wont just walk away from you if you tell him your not ready. If he truely loves you he will respect your decision.
Your ... (read in full...)
I'm going to the cinema with a group of mates and a guy that I'm into-any tips?
Q. Hi. Tomorow I'm going to the cinema with a group of mates and a guy that im into. We're in the same school and grade, he sent me mail saying That he is into me aswell. Then he sent me another mail saying "We'll see what happens tomorow (K). I'...
A. 18 May 2008: hi, sounds like you are pretty much smitten with each other, am i right? 1st thing i agree with, with the other person that answered were have something for your breath, i suggest a mint rather than a chewing gum, its easier to get rid of, an a tic ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after fingering? I'm still a virgin.
Q. ok...Im a virgin and haven't really done anything...But recently I have let my b/f finger me, however when he's done and i go to the bathroom or i notice that i've been bleeding. There's no weird odors and i haven't felt pain or discomfort of any ...
A. 17 May 2008: hi, yes to some ppl it is normal. Not everyone gets it though. It should stop happening to you after a short while, but if you are worried or it goes on for too long then book an appointment with your GP to ask there advice.
Good Luck....... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date or have a sexual relationship with your cousin?
Q. I haven't seen my second cousin in 28 years and she a complete knock out. I asked her if she wanted to do lunch and she accepted. We did lunch. I'm just not sure if it's okay to continue this fraternizing. We talk a lot with each other. We have good ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi, let me 1st put your mind at rest. Going out, sleeping together or even marrying your cousin is not illegal. (im in a relationship myself with my cousin, so i know how you feel, i truly do)If you can't stop thinking about her, an your heart skips ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to love my step-step-3rd cousin?
Q. My dad got married in June (2007). I was hanging out with my step mom and we went to her cousin's new house. I have never met her cousin, until that day. Her cousin, has a step daughter. I couldn't help but tellin her how beautiful she was etc etc. ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi no i dont see this as being a problem as you are not blood related so people should not comment on what you are doing. (but on saying that ppl can be crewl, i no this better than any1 being in a relationship with my 1st cousin myself)
Good ... (read in full...)
Is a relationship with a third cousin incestuous?
Q. i am in a relationship with my 3rd cousin, am i incest? if i had a kid would it have a birth defect? also if im pregnant how should i tell our family?...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi, no in my opinion it's not incest if it's with a cousin. (I myself am in a relationship with my 1st cousin, so i know how you feel i truly do) an in my opinion i think with it being your 3rd cousin then there is not much of a chance that it will ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my boyfriend, what should I do?...
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years and we love each other a lot, but I think that we are starting to draw apart from each other. he want to take some time apart but I really don't want to because I'm afraid that one of his best ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi allow your boyfriend the time alone he asks of you he will respect you more for it, in the long run. If you truly love him you wont even consider his mates, an if one dose ask you out then tell them, "Thankyou for your kind offer, an that you are ... (read in full...)
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