You shouldn't have to convince someone to love you...
Q. My boyfriend has told me twice in one year that he loves me. We have talked about possible future plans and he has said it really freaks him out to say how he feels about me. I think he's afraid that he may be on the path to marriage but is not ...
A. 19 October 2011: Dear 'You shouldn't have to convince someone to love you...',: Stop begging to get hin to commit. THis will come across as neediness to a man and will serve as vehicle to move him away from you. It can be hard a a women do but you have to if you ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he cares if he refuses to make her the other woman?
Q. Is this a fair statement? If a married man has a female friend he is attracted to and she is attracted to him, does it mean he cares about her if he refuses to make her the other woman? Any opinions?...
A. 19 October 2011: Dear'Does it mean he cares if he refuses to make her the other woman?' : Please be advised that the other women is threading on dangerous territory. The person who can't stay commited to a marriage 'covenant' there is know way you can expect a ... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that I'm worth it?
Q. I am currently trying to mend a relationship that ended because she freaks out at any sign of commitment. We still talk everyday and hang out, she said she doesn't want anything but then says she wants to try and that she really likes me. every time ...
A. 19 October 2011: Dear' How do I convince her that I'm worth it?': Why get so worked up? You are so young and have plenty of time for serious relationships. What about college? Hobbies? Your family? Focus on something else. You will have plenty of time for ... (read in full...)
I've always been somewhat reliant on a guy to make me happy
Q. Hey Dearcupid's :) Over the past 3 years, I've been through a lot of pain and heartache. I just consider myself unlucky when it comes to men lol. I've experienced it all - having feelings for someone who I could never have, infatuated with ...
A. 19 October 2011: Dear 'I've always been somewhat reliant on a guy to make me happy': THis statement is your problem all in itself. No one can make you happy but you! Most happy women exercise, are involved in their life, Have spirituality and have good friends as a ... (read in full...)
I'd like to let him know how I feel
Q. I went on a "date" with a man tonight. We went out for dinner, and played pool, spent a good 4 hours together, talking and laughing the whole time. He has made me dinner twice in the past month, and we have casually gone to the driving range once ...
A. 19 October 2011: Dear 'I'd like to let him know how I feel' :You have already made a mistake by making the first move. Don't let him know your feelings until he declares his feelings for you.Most masculine men will run away from women who are aggressive and this may ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my teacher that she is like a second mother to me?
Q. first of all, i have an english teacher and i love her very much as a second mother but she doesn't know that. and i really want to tell her that i love her as a second mother but i don't know how she is going to react if i told her that. so, what ...
A. 7 October 2011: You don't have to use those words. Tell her that you look up to her as a role model adn you respect her greatly and she has had a great influence onn your life. You thank her for that.That is awesome that you have a great teacher. D.E.B.... (read in full...)
When someone just wants sex, do they avoid affection like this?
Q. How does a man act if it's "just sex"? I've been seeing this man. We slept together once and since then I've tried not to see him, but I keep ending up seeing him and we kiss. We can never be together - there are so many reasons. Our situations i...
A. 7 October 2011: Dear 'When someone...'-You haven't given an indication as to why you can't be together. Is he in a marriage relationship? In a clergy position that doesn't permit marriage? It doesn't make sense. Be honest with yourself. What's to gain if you r... (read in full...)
No husband or boyfriend. Am I wrong to feel bad about this?
Q. Is it wrong for me to think that my life is over because I don't have a husband OR boyfriend? I'm 35 and I hardly even date. I'm extremely shy and not a positive thinker. ...
A. 4 October 2011: Dear ' Coltsgirl' - You aren't quite ready to date yet.Go to www.shyunited.com One of the reasons that people stay stuck in timidity is because they don't perceieve their attributes but are seemingly aware of their flaws(or perceieved flaws).Y... (read in full...)
What do you get for the guy who has everything?
Q. What do you get for a man who has everything? My boyfriend is a farmer and a mechanic and its his birhtday soon but he says he has everything but what is a good gift for a guy...
A. 4 October 2011: Dear 'what do I Get...' Simple! Look at his interest. Buy a top of the line product for his interest. He will be impressed that you took time to learn about what he is interested in! Example Fishing- Buy a top of the line real and rod!D.E.B.... (read in full...)
How to be in solitude and heal from heartbreak
Q. So I've learned now that I am not worth that much to my husband and in a great deal of pain. I'm very depressed and lonely. I am not ready to leave this relationship at this time. I don't want another man in my life and I don't want to make friends. ...
A. 4 October 2011: Dear 'Solitude'- I felt compelled to answer you because I feel sorry that you have let your husband determine your value. You don't have to be rich to window shop, walk in the park, volunteer at a homeless shelter. These things will boost your ... (read in full...)
Sex starved, thinking about the porn business?
Q. Let me tell you my story. First of all, I'm a nice guy, fairly good looking, clean-cut, just turned 32, and I stand a shade under 5'6. My friends and co-workers tell me all the time that I'm handsome with a nice body. Secondly, I'm thinking abo...
A. 4 October 2011: Dear 'Sex-starved'- Let me repeat this several times if you are as large as you say(a bit pretentious I might add)then sex isn't the problem.You are so desperate that you would go against what you like to get it.That tells me how pressed you are to ... (read in full...)
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