STI tests and the IUD?
Q. When I met my current boyfriend (at 18) I had no sexual experience, I'd never even been kissed. During the two years that have passed since, he's become my first for everything. We've always used condoms during sex because at the moment it's the ...
A. 9 July 2012: I am not at all a professional here but here is a bit of information for you:
1- I believe you can be a carrier of certain STI's without having any sexual contact etc., due to genes and what not.
2- The best person to tell you if you should ta... (read in full...)
Just started dating a guy and was intimate with him? Could this damper the development of a possible relationship?
Q. I'm pretty sure that I already know what a bunch of you are about to say...but I have a quick question regarding bringing intimacy early on into a developing/dating/relationship. Do you guys think that it will make or break the current situation ...
A. 9 July 2012: First of all... this sounds sooooooooooooo familiar. I'm sad to say that that is how it went with my ex and glad to say that that is how it started with my current fiancée ;) so it works both ways.
Early intimacy: To me, there is absolute... (read in full...)
Help me rebuild my life!
Q. Apologies in advance as this is not so much a relationship question as it has more to do with rebuilding a life from the ground up financially. Three years ago I left Australia and spent the entire $20,000 I had saved through my hard work over f...
A. 9 July 2012: I would also like to point out that asking others to help you rebuild your life isn't exactly the best way of being (to take your own words) "completely independent!"... (read in full...)
Help me rebuild my life!
Q. Apologies in advance as this is not so much a relationship question as it has more to do with rebuilding a life from the ground up financially. Three years ago I left Australia and spent the entire $20,000 I had saved through my hard work over f...
A. 9 July 2012: I feel your pain!! It's hard nowadays to work and survive. However, 30 hrs/week at 19$/hour doesn't seem half bad for a one man solo. Maybe you should REALLY look into your budget and see where it's all going and find some solutions to cut the ... (read in full...)
Any advice to make my first kiss romantic, fun, memorable and special?
Q. Yesterday a guy who s my age, told me that he liked me. I said i liked him too, so it got a bit awkward then he tried to kiss me. Some how I pulled back before he could kiss me, becoz i dont think i was ready to do that since ive never kissed a boy ...
A. 9 July 2012: I'm not very fond of cinnamon (then again it depends on the lips you are kissing **winks at Sweet-thing**) but here are a few tips for you:
1- IMPORTANT! Swallow any excess saliva in your mouth before you kiss. (I learned that the hard way hehe... (read in full...)
"Those" dreams, of the ex!
Q. It's a beautiful morning here in the South Coast. I'm sitting here with my bowl of Frosties slowly turning to mush in the milk because something is casting a shadow over my Thursday. The dreaded dream of "The ex"! You know the one? Where you're...
A. 9 July 2012: Hello missmatador.
First of all thank you for this article which made me laugh and think. I am also currently in the same situation. My last relation ended badly (let's not get into the details) and it has tormented me for close to 3 years no... (read in full...)
I posted an ad for no strings attached sex but now I've changed my mind
Q. I went on craigslist for a NSA encounter...but now I want to back out of it. The guy has my email address (my real one) so I worried he may find me... is this silly? I do have a FB account obviouly under my own name. He wants to meet up this wee...
A. 9 July 2012: Ok so.... Where do you live?? :P
Just kidding. Honestly, just tell him that you changed your mind. As a man, I've had a few situations just like this where a woman was wanting to hang out and "have fun" but then changing her mind. If he's a good g... (read in full...)
How can I fight my gag reflex and give better blowjobs?
Q. hi guys, im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. its going very well, and we have had sex. but now my boyfriend really wants me to start giving him blowjobs and swallowing his sperm. i have only give a few blowjobs. i've bee...
A. 9 July 2012: Hello anonymous, Here are a few tips for the "swallowing" part of your question. These have all been tried and tested and helpful for me. Let me know if any of these help you. 1- Keep a glass of water or juice (even champagne works and trust ... (read in full...)
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