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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Yesterday a guy who s my age, told me that he liked me. I said i liked him too, so it got a bit awkward then he tried to kiss me. Some how I pulled back before he could kiss me, becoz i dont think i was ready to do that since ive never kissed a boy in my entire life. He was upset but tried to stay cool with me, later he told me that he was kinda upset that he really want to kiss me. I told him i will let him when im ready. Im new at this and ive been trying to avoid it quiet alot of times. Now i want to do it but im scared i might not be good enough and he will know that im unexperienced, then somehow get to make fun of me. .:( nah that s not how ive imagined my first kiss to look like. I want it to be romantic, fun, memorable and special day ever! Any advice will help, you can also tell me about your first kiss experiences and how it worked out. Thanx xoxo Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DoberDark +, writes (9 July 2012):
I'm not very fond of cinnamon (then again it depends on the lips you are kissing **winks at Sweet-thing**) but here are a few tips for you:
1- IMPORTANT! Swallow any excess saliva in your mouth before you kiss. (I learned that the hard way hehe). Otherwise the kiss can be a bit more slurpy and slobbery than you would like it to be.
2- Tongue is NOT important. Only slip the tongue if you feel comfortable doing so. It took me years to master the "French Kiss" and to be honest, my favorite kisses have no tongue at all or very little.
3- Have fun! No need to put so much pressure on yourself for the perfect first kiss. Like I said the most important is to have fun with it, experiment. Your best kiss may not be your first kiss, but it might be the second one and that will only happen if the first one is fun hehe ;).
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (9 July 2012):
Cinammon flavored lip gloss. Be sure you brush your teeth and chew some cinammon gum. For some reason that flavor turns most men on. Wear a light perfume, just a hint of something sexy. Make it your signature scent and he will always think of your first kiss when he smells it years from now. Good luck.
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