I thought I loved him. I'm not physically attracted to him What should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend nearly 3 months now and i really thought i loved him. However im not so sure. I knw it seems shallow but im not really physically attracted to him. I have been wondering if i can do better. My mum is always saying my...
A. 11 May 2007: First of all, in my honest oppinion, no one person "needs" another. Although it may feel like it at times. Second, if you question love, you don't love. At least not love enough to be considering a serious relationship that will last. Finally... (read in full...)
He told me that he doesn't love me, like I love him! Where can I go from here?
Q. I have two children, one with my boyfriend now and one from a previous relationship. My boyfriend has taking on both children like they are both his own and his is a WONDERFUL father but we have been struggling. I love him more than anything ...
A. 11 May 2007: In my personal oppinion, if i were in your situation, as a man i would walk away. Simply because two years is more than enough, it's certainly enough to fall out of love with someone. Of course i'm just talking from my personal experience and not ... (read in full...)
I worry that i may not be good enough for her!
Q. Hi there, I'm not used to using these kind of things, however, i'm not sure where to turn. Friends of mine seldom give advice and i'm one of those who cannot take his own. My problem is as follows; I've found a partner that i beileve to be gr...
A. 8 May 2007: Many thanks for your response... (read in full...)
My BF broke up with me so he can sort his depression out, should I wait for him or move on?
Q. I'm incredibly confused right now. My longtime boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago after nearly a year together. We were close friends for years before we started dating. His reason for ending things is because he is depressed, needs ...
A. 8 May 2007: if it's a long term relationship then he's probably telling you the whole story. I've been through depression myself and there was a time where i needed to be on my own. I had the knowledge that my partner of the time was there when i needed her and ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, just lost my virginity and now my BF wants me to shave down there!
Q. hey am 16 and and i just lost it to my b/f who i have been with for about 2 years now and he said he would like me to shave all my hair on my pussy... would it make a diffrence if i did or not?...
A. 8 May 2007: the only difference would be your lack of hair. It certainly won't improve either parties performance and it's not a risk to your health. Maybe your pertner just preferes "that look". The choice is yours really though. If he leaves you if you dont ... (read in full...)
Does this guy really have an interest in me since on our only day off he didn't want to hang out?
Q. Hello cupid I met a person 5 weeks ago, in the third week we had our first date.We mantain in contact on phone twice or 3 times a day for short period due to the type of job we both have since then. We have both a job that has not allowed us t...
A. 8 May 2007: well you just need to ask yourself if this guy is worth the wait from what you already know about him. it's a gamble, yes, but most things in life are. It's still early days, get what you can when you can. Aside from that just continue on with life ... (read in full...)
He told me that he doesn't love me, like I love him! Where can I go from here?
Q. I have two children, one with my boyfriend now and one from a previous relationship. My boyfriend has taking on both children like they are both his own and his is a WONDERFUL father but we have been struggling. I love him more than anything ...
A. 8 May 2007: i really feel for you. Raising two children cannot be an easy task. I've always seen marrage as 'the final commitment'. It's certainly not what it used to be though. To take your children and remove this farther figure from their life will not do ... (read in full...)
Torn apart by our breakup and the thought of my ex with other guys...
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me almost a month ago and I have not been able to accept that yet. We had a big fight at first I tried to resist the anger but she kept on sayin rubbish and lastly I exploded this made the story turn upside down. I still ...
A. 8 May 2007: Time is a healier my friend. Personally i never go back on a chapter in my life, perhapes you should try this. It is really tough, granted, and you may feel that you cannot life without her, but in order to carry on you must remind yourself of how ... (read in full...)
I broke off with him on a Friday but he texted me on a Saturday. I don't get it-what is his problem?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for 6 months,he is 40 i'm 44 we get on quite well,only he trys to make me jealous,tells me not to get attached to him,changes his mind from one week to the next,i finished with him friday night,but saturday night he is ...
A. 8 May 2007: i would certainly say the pot could play a part in it. I believe from what you've said that a soulution to the problem would have to start with the pot. If he's a heavy user and then it can effect everything wether he's high or not. If he's willing ... (read in full...)
Having a suspended license makes it hard to see her! I am worried about losing her..what can I do?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 months now, and everythings been perfect between us, but she lives about 30 minutes away from me and i'm not driving right now because i have a suspended license. so it makes it really hard to see her ...
A. 8 May 2007: the first bit of advice i'd give is dont get your license suspended! If it's meant to be it'll work itself out. Of course she'll feel a bit down, but just imagine the look on her face when you do meet up again. That kind of moment will stay with the ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me ?
Q. how do i know if my boyfriend is cheating on me ? and wheather or not this relationship is serious enough to continue ?...
A. 8 May 2007: personally i would say that there is no sure fire way of knowing for sure. It sounds asif you don't trust him though. A little back-ground information would be helpful. Unless you want to hire a private detective i wouldn't challanged him untill you ... (read in full...)
Cut off contact with my ex bf so I could heal! Was this the right decision?
Q. After my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago now because he has commitment issues. He was still emailing me, I finally ended it with him saying I think we shouldn't contact each other anymore. I told him that I need to heal and move on with my ...
A. 8 May 2007: i truley believe you've done the right thing. In my experience at least it's the best thing to do. I know it worked for me. My ex of so many years ago blocked me out completely and after a week i left her only, havn't seen her since. I really do ... (read in full...)
He thought I was too young to date so he stopped contact. But I can't get over him-what can I do?
Q. OK, so there's this boy and I met him on my work experience. I'm 15, 16 this september and he had just turned 18. So we got talking + he got my number, nothing more happened while I was there, but after we texted each other a lot and eventually got ...
A. 8 May 2007: i can relate to what it is you're saying, however, i must stress that you don't rush into things. Enjoy being young while you can, "relationships" are alot of hard work and it's a huge thing for any person to undertake. In regards to this guy, i ... (read in full...)
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