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Article - Love songs/poems/quotes

Q.   Hey everyone this is for all you people out there who want to read poems quotes and love songs !!! you can post any of these things any kind of love quote, song or poem!or things to say to the one you love . *also* heartbroken ones are exce...

A.   31 May 2008: here are some more quotes and poems: *True love stories never have endings *If I had a rose for every time I thought of you, I'd be picking roses for a lifetime *sometimes big things come in small packages *Love is like oxygen, the more you hav... (read in full...)

What are your opinions or funny stories about 69ing?

Q.   i would like to hear your opinions about 69ing with somebody. like if you like it or not? or if you have any funny or interesting stories about it!!! please write them if you have any!!!...

A.   31 May 2008: LJ001: so did I. but i didn't almost collapse, i did!!! lol!!! and to the people saying i am too young to be doing that: i'm older than you think i am!!... (read in full...)

What are your opinions or funny stories about 69ing?

Q.   i would like to hear your opinions about 69ing with somebody. like if you like it or not? or if you have any funny or interesting stories about it!!! please write them if you have any!!!...

A.   30 May 2008: for the anonymous reader: 69ing is where the girl sucks the guy's dick and the guy licks the girl's vagina!! btw: it usually works better with the girl on top!! ... (read in full...)

Is it normal being turned on by incest?

Q.   i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...

A.   23 May 2008: thank you "a decent 1" for understanding!! ... (read in full...)

I get turned on my female sex... is there something wrong with me?

Q.   i get easily turned on by watching 2 girls have sex. but i'm not a lesbian!!! is there something wrong with me or is this normal?...

A.   22 May 2008: thank you for understanding my problem!!!... (read in full...)

I need help, my mother and grandmother are homophobic, and I am bisexual.

Q.   Im 13 and about to be 14 in a few weeks. I have had thoughts about sex and just really started talking to my mother about it. She thinks that because I'm 13 i shouldn't be thinking about sex. Also i am bisexual and my mother is homophobic and always ...

A.   21 May 2008: you can't help what your preferences are! but they shouldn't have theright to tell you who to date or what gender to like!! good luck girl! best wishes!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxox... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to go on top but I don't know what to do!

Q.   i'm 16 and my boyfriend is turning 18 in less than a month. we've been having sex for about a year, and i'm always on the bottom. he's getting mad that i'm scared to go on top, but i don't know what to do! can someone explain to me what a girl is ...

A.   21 May 2008: i can't help you with that! i have never been on top, i have always been on bottom!! why don't you ask a very close friend who has been on bottom before!! good luck!!... (read in full...)

I had sex a couple of days ago and I'm still bleeding, why??

Q.   i'm 15 years old and i just had sex a couple days ago. i'm still bleeding from this. i can't figure out if it is because he scratched me or if it i "you know what"!! please help me!!...

A.   19 May 2008: first time. i have no idea if its time for that yet!! yes i usually bleed!! it is just spotting!... (read in full...)

How can I be friends with this guy when my boyfriend doesn't like it?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years. me and his best friend were talking one day and he grabbed my waist, pulled me over and kissed me on the lips. but this friend is one of my friends too. now my boyfriend knows and wants to kill ...

A.   19 May 2008: thank you to coulisfoulis. i like that answer. it sounds like you know what you are talking about!! ... (read in full...)

How can I stop teasing my boyfriend, sex-wise?

Q.   everytime i am with my boyfriend alone we have sexual attractions towards each other. but i always seem to tease him and ever get anywhere sexually!! how can i stop teasing my boyfriend?...

A.   19 May 2008: Thank you for all of your comments they really help!!!... (read in full...)

He didn't use a condom. Should I be worried about being pregnant?

Q.   My boyfriend and i just had sex a couple of days ago. He didn't use a condom. I have been having major cramps ever since. I can't buy a pregnancy test because my mom will know!! Should i be worried about being pregnant? ...

A.   19 May 2008: i just need to let you know that we were not planning on having sex, we just got so caught up in the moment it jusst sort of happened!!! im only 15 i can't be pregnant! i'm not ready!!... (read in full...)

I developed an ictch patch on my genitals, What do you think it is and what should I do?

Q.   Dear members am in trouble and badly need your help please! I developed an ictch patch on my genital 8 weeks back and thought it was just a skin rash. But the patch has not only persisted but also expanded. It gets terrible every day am even ...

A.   19 May 2008: it may be a yeast infection! good luck with that!... (read in full...)

How long do I give him if he needs time? Or do I end it...?

Q.   Hi, I'm stuck in a difficult position with a guy I've just started dating. We dated for three weeks and it was probably one of the best starts to a relationship I've ever had. We were compatible in pretty much every way. We would see each other 2...

A.   19 May 2008: girl the same thing happenened to me but i've been dating mine for 3 years. just give him a couple weeks to just be a guy! don't call him or talk to him! just let him cool off and think about everything! if he decides o go out with his ex, then you ... (read in full...)

Are there any women who dislike having their man's semen in their mouth?

Q.   Are there any women who dislike having their man's semen in their mouth? Has anyone ever gagged on it? How do you get past the taste and texture? I really want to try, but whenever a little gets in, I gag. It's strictly from the above mentioned ...

A.   19 May 2008: well girl! you could ask him to change his diet and that will change the taste. the texture you really can't do anything about! sorry! the whole diet thing is what i did with my boy and it really worked! if that doesn't work! ask again later and ... (read in full...)

My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?

Q.   Hi my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it. is this normal or what...

A.   17 May 2008: i think that you should respect her decision, but i would talk to her about it and see why she plans on doing it. it's not unusual for a woman to get a nude picture drawn of her. it make them feel beautiful. yes it is normal. relax! don't freak out! ... (read in full...)

How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women?

Q.   How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women? My b/f of 3 yrs. blows hot and cold constantly. One minute he's all, 'ooh baby you're the best thing that ever happened to me...' and the next minute he's yelling at me over something ...

A.   17 May 2008: my boyfriend does the same thing. just tell him hoe you feel about it and if he loves you he will understand. if he doesn't liten then you shouldn't be with him anyway! good luck!... (read in full...)

Nervous about sex. Scared to do it for the first time.

Q.   i have never had sex before and i'm kind of scared to do it for the first time. my boyfriend really wants to have sex but i don't think im ready. i really love him but i don't want to go that far. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. ...

A.   17 May 2008: Thanks for all of those helpful answers. They really opened my eyes to whether or not to do it. Bu I must add that he probably won't be as nervous as me because he has had sex before like 2 times.... (read in full...)

I checked the condom and there was no split - so why the white stuff?

Q.   The other day me and my girlfriend were having sex, after we finished we noticed this white stuff around and in her vagina area. I checked the condom and there was no split in it or not one i could find at least. d Does anyone know what this cou...

A.   17 May 2008: it's probably just her cum. nothing to panic about. but if you are nervous about it you could go to a doctor. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is taller than me and I feel very uncomfortable about it.

Q.   Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now and I love her. However, I have just noticed that she is taller than me. I'm 17 and only about 5'7"ish and I'm really insecure about my height. My girlfriend looks like she is about half an...

A.   17 May 2008: i think that you need to stop worrying about your height difference. i know it may be a little awkward, but if you love each other that shouldn't matter. and if it matters that much than you have problems. my boyfriend is taller than me and i have ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know a good conversation starter?

Q.   ok theres this guy who i see once a week at work im really into i think hes noticed me in that way but im not sure dose anyone know a good conversation starter that isnt rude or to nosey but lets him know i like him lol feel fee to help me out i ...

A.   17 May 2008: to start a good quality coversation with someone you have to find something the both of you have in common. you could ask him what his name is and then ask him to maybe get some coffee withyou to get to know each other as friends and then if ... (read in full...)

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