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I need help, my mother and grandmother are homophobic, and I am bisexual.

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Question - (20 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ngel24925 writes:

Im 13 and about to be 14 in a few weeks. I have had thoughts about sex and just really started talking to my mother about it. She thinks that because I'm 13 i shouldn't be thinking about sex. Also i am bisexual and my mother is homophobic and always says ewww or something of that sort when she sees a homosexual and my grandmother is not as bad but is the same way and it hurts. Today i told my grandmother i was bisexual and she hit me and pushed me down and told me that I'm 13 and I don't know what i am. What should i do? they are thinking about putting me out the house and into the detention home because they feel they don't know me anymore.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

Dear, I am considerabley older than you and I don't even tell my mother that much about my sex life. Let alone my GRANDMOTHER.

Especially when you're 13.

Sexual thoughts or fantasies should be kept personal (in your head and bed), and shared only with someone once you're in a secure, long relationship with them. I highly recommend waiting a few years to REALLY decide if you're bisexual (make sure your feelings are real before acting on them), and wait several years to begin sexual activity with anyone but yourself. Having sex young and not properly educated can lead to emotional issues, as well as the higher risk of STIs/STDs.

Hope this helps!

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A female reader, diva girl United States +, writes (21 May 2008):

you can't help what your preferences are! but they shouldn't have theright to tell you who to date or what gender to like!! good luck girl! best wishes!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

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