Why am I not married yet?
Q. While I wait and hoping to marry someday, as to I'm in my mid 30's, seems have decline. Next thing I knew, everyone asked, why am I not married?? I want to tell them, I'm ugly, miserable bitch that nobody want. All I could said, I don't have the ...
A. 30 June 2011: I only said I'm ugly because people told me themselves. I never knew beauty until a guy permanently wrote ugly in my year book in 6th grade. I never think of myself ugly or fugly. So when you take a look in the past, your life is pretty much damaged ... (read in full...)
Maybe I'm not cut out to be a mom?
Q. Maybe I'm not cut out to be a mom. He's cute, yes, but too much for me to handle, financially and sleeplessness. It is burdensome and bothersome for me. I'm getting so stress out and burnout from taking care of a baby. I don't have a reliable sitter ...
A. 12 June 2011: He's 10 months old. He's getting hard for me to handle. I don't have family here and I don't have anyone to take up on offering me a break from motherhood. Just me and a baby. I'm tired. I really am tired and stressing out. I don't get to sleep ... (read in full...)
Do I have to make special allowances because they’re from a “broken home”?
Q. We love each other and have had no other relationship problems, so is it a relationship red flag if I don’t like my boyfriend’s kids from his first marriage much after knowing them for 1 year? They’re 8 and 10 years old, live with their mom and ...
A. 4 May 2011: You have to accept when you want a relationship with him, kids are every part of him. And he will not choose you over his kids, if you ask him to divide and conquer.
Tell him anyway, tell him reawrding kids with bad behavior is gonna get worse. When... (read in full...)
Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?
Q. Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with...
A. 25 April 2011: It supposedly type audism not autism. ... (read in full...)
Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?
Q. Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with...
A. 16 April 2011: Dear female reader, Foster system?? Oh no!! That's too risky!! They're making it 50 times harder for someone like me to get child back. I know this. Someone informed me this because court looked at us like we are incapable of raising children... (read in full...)
Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?
Q. Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with...
A. 13 April 2011: Thank you for given me an insights on this. ... (read in full...)
When is my bad luck going to end?
Q. when is my bad luck going to end, nothing in my life has been simple. people may say "oh just get over it, your life is what you make it" but nothing i do ends up being simple, i reckon iv gone through more in my 20years of being on this earth then ...
A. 4 April 2011: You're almost exactly in same path as I went through. We simply want to have a good day without being heckling. When it gonna end?? Probably not, unless you makes effort to change things that's becoming you, not what you became. Get rid of old ... (read in full...)
Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?
Q. Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with...
A. 1 April 2011: Would it help that I was suicidal and depressed, just before I was pregnant? I did sought helps, treatments, nothing works. Most of the time, I hate when God purposely stop me from ending my life. As I stated in first post, I do not have and sup... (read in full...)
Virgin at 20, should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?
Q. Hi i am a 20 yr old male and still a virgin. this fact depresses the hell out of me. everywhere i go theres people all having so much fun and i feel that im missing the best parts of my life and falling behind on much needed experience. most people ...
A. 24 March 2011: Don't lose your virginity! It is perfect normal not lose it till you find a right person you dream of marrying. Don't lose it for "experience" of it. I tell you openly and honestly, I have been with a virgin guy for 7 years and that was best and ... (read in full...)
Should I try to apologize or talk to him after 2 years?
Q. I don't know if this is right place to ask. He was a really good friend of mine. I was really having a bad day at that time, I lost my job, he said something that really bringing me down, not an insult, but nothing positive. I was stupid enough to ...
A. 27 September 2010: Woah, he's not my ex boyfriend or anything. Just platonic friend. Wherever I go, he'll show up somehow, even where I work. I always felt that he's watching me, from afar. But neither of us could break the ice. ... (read in full...)
Any advice for an average ugly plain jane?
Q. I'm not beautiful or thin, I'm just an average ugly plain jane, compares to the society. I finding it very hard to land a good guy. I really want to get married, I guess I'm pushing it, after all, I'm 33. I went out with the last guy, who lied and ...
A. 27 September 2010: Well.. I've been told I'm ugly a numberous of times. I'm not a bad looking, just wish people look pass that outer look. I'm usually friendly, honest, and sincere, oh and a great cook. Nothing wrong with being me. ... (read in full...)
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