It really started out like FWB, but now I'm not so sure ...
Q. So I am in a bit of a situation, a pretty big one if that. I got in contact with this guy I had a fling with when I was 17, our friends hooked us up, after we broke up from our relationships failed, and we ended up having sex a few times and it w...
A. 30 September 2012: If you both are NOT in other relationships, then yes you could explore whether you might want to be together and see how you feel about each other.
If either one of you is in another relationship, then no. Go your separate ways. Maybe later in... (read in full...)
Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?
Q. I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...
A. 30 September 2012: If you tell the g/f, more than likely you'll lose her at some point because this will gnaw at her, even if she never mentions it again. How could that ever be forgotten?
I don't think anyone could just drop that, male or female. That's just my ... (read in full...)
Feel like I married both my husband and his sister -- and she doesn't like me
Q. I have been married for two years and was blindsided by a problem that he has: his sister. She was very friendly before the engagement and wanted to be my best friend. My husband and she are very close. They talk every day on the phone, lived ...
A. 29 September 2012: I suggest you find out if he knows about her "covertness." Especially at the wedding. That seems pretty important to me. If he's just shaking his head and going "oh shucks, it's just my sister," then this will continue for a very long time. Tell her ... (read in full...)
Flirt at work
Q. okay so there is this guy I work with and I am starting to like him never liked him at first but he has pretty much swept me off my feet in a sence.I never had a crush on him at first but he was so sweet to me and got me thinking a lil.He would go ...
A. 28 September 2012: I don't know the work you do or how it is that he helps you with your work, but this is a slippery slope. If someone else notices that he helps you and not others he could be called out for not getting his work done or favoring you.
Supervisors & ma... (read in full...)
How do I stop jealousy from getting the best of me?
Q. I am constantly on the social networking side of the internet. I check facebook often, email for work and personal connection, etc. So now that I'm in an LDR I see that my very handsome boyfriend has added a few girls to his friends list that go to ...
A. 28 September 2012: First things first. Is he really cheating or flirting? Or is this something that you see in your mind's eye?
You have to build your self-confidence! Rely on your personal worth to guide you. Would he be your b/f if he didn't want you? Of course not.... (read in full...)
Dealing with toxic relatives?
Q. i'm growing apart from my cousin (about the same age) as she is hanging out with the wrong crowd (parties and drugs are her priorities) and takes no responsibility in life... She always has some kind of problems and is always taking the role of the ...
A. 28 September 2012: You don't have to cut them off. Just don't agree with everything they do or say, especially if they are being "self-destructive." When you meet or talk don't rely on your relative to drive the whole conversation. Let her know how you're doing and ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to boyfriend about having children?
Q. Ive just learnt that my bf would want me to have an abortion if i were to fall pregnant now as he doesnt want a kid For at least a few years. He was serious. We've had this talk before but it has never said that. We have been together for 3 years....
A. 28 September 2012: You've been together for 3 years and he freaks at the subjects of marriage and children? Then I think unless this is what you want, you'd be better off moving on. Anyone truly in love with you should at least not have a problem with talking about ... (read in full...)
We're getting married in a few weeks and something seems off with my fiance. What should I do?
Q. My fiance and I are getting married in a few weeks. Everything's been great, until a couple weeks ago. I started sensing something was off with him, so I brought it up. He explained everything's fine and normal, but my instinct is feeling like he's ...
A. 28 September 2012: Just a thought, but make sure you're not getting cold feet... ;) Make sure this is what YOU really want to do. If you aren't having jitters about getting married, you're almost superhuman! If you think all this through and still believe it's ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend's talk and actions?
Q. Me and my girlfriend hve been together for 4 months now and our anniversary is coming up. Since its finals,we havent met for like 2 weeks since hers ended n mine is still going on and its going to b like a week more b4 we sees each other again. I m ...
A. 28 September 2012: You're worrying too much. If she cares about you, she'll let you know. Sorry to be so harsh, but if she says she misses being friends it sounds like that's all she wants. You say she's being "cold" lately? That is a sign in itself. She may feel ... (read in full...)
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