Help! I have problems with sex!
Q. Hi, I have been married for two years and I have never been on top during sex!! I just can't do it as it hurts and I can't give my husband oral sex! I did it once but it disgusts me?!!!!!!!!! Is this normal or what ?...
A. 30 March 2009: I would say it is as normal as you don't like it. If you don't like it you shouldn't do it.
But if you are willing to keep trying to be on top it will quit hurting and you will enjoy it.
As far as oral it is not for everybody.... (read in full...)
It got completely out of control and the lie got so big, we couldn't back out of it
Q. Hi everyone I've been friends with a girl named Natalie for about 6 months now. She lives 40 minutes away from me. My friends that live close to me and I decided that it would be funny to lie to Natalie and tell her that I had this huge compli...
A. 16 March 2009: I was always told when I was growing up if you never lie you never have to deal with the consequences.
With that said It will probably take a lot to gain back her trust.
So you have a long road head of you get after it.... (read in full...)
Sex once or twice is OK?
Q. Is there something wrong with wanting sex more than once or twice a week? I find that sort of frequency EXTREMELY difficult, but on asking for help on here I've sort of been told that it's not that bad....
A. 14 March 2009: Its one of those things where sometimes I want it everyday and then there are times can go two or three months without it. It just depends on you your partner and work schedule. So I would say no not a bad thing to want it two or three times a ... (read in full...)
Had sex with best friend's brother & now period is late!
Q. I'm 15 and I had sex with my best friends brother- he is 23 and has a pregnant girlfriend. I can't bring myself to see her or him or anyone from their family because- well. We didn't use protection- an I'm a week late for my period.. :S. What do I ...
A. 14 March 2009: I would say buy a test and findout and then get on birth control and carry condoms with you. You also need to start thinking that you actions have consequences. ... (read in full...)
I need a REAL man's advice for my guy's 25th birthday
Q. Hey all you red blooded males out there, i'm wondering if what i'm going to do for my partner's 25th birthday is going to be enough. i'm a bit tight for cash but i really want to do something that will make him really happy. he said no ones rea...
A. 14 March 2009: That would work fine for me. Any guy who wouldn't like that would be nuts.... (read in full...)
His porn viewing has made me feel insecure! Help!
Q. I told my fiance I don't want him to look at porn and I found out he did twice. He finally confessed one day out of the blue when I was talking bout porn. That's been almost a month ago.(When he confessed.) I thought it was because I just had a ...
A. 12 March 2009: My personal opinion is when my wife is pregnant she is the sexiest person around would never think of looking at porn period.... (read in full...)
I felt really uncomfortable when he touched me "there!"
Q. there's this guy that I've spent nearly everyday after school with since I was 12. He's my mom's best friend so she don't have a problem with me staying in his apartment until she gets home from work. He's been acting really strange around me latly ...
A. 14 February 2009: I would say that you need to talk to somebody about this. How old is this guy that did this to you. Sounds to me like he is a sick pedophole. You need to talk to somebody that is not your mom. Maybe talk to a school counselor or something.
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The office scandal - what do I do?
Q. I am bisexual, my coworker and friend knows I gave big hints. I really like her she's in a unhappy / abusive marraige. We have had a connection always touching each other hands 2 her complmenting my voice. She and I have a eye connection thing going ...
A. 11 February 2009: I think she might feel the same but then again maybe she doesn't now what she is feeling.
I think that maybe she just needs a friend right now. I would say maybe talking to her more.
Everybody needs a friend and maybe she is yours and vice v... (read in full...)
I tried a threesome and hated it!
Q. I have had a boyfriend for about 2 years and recently I found out he wants to watch me have sex with another man and he won't feel jealous or anything. We tried to do a threesome but I couldn't do it.. I couldn't stand another person touching my ...
A. 27 January 2009: Nobody can force you to do anything. Its understandable that you don't want to share your boyfriend makes sense to me.... (read in full...)
Afraid of giving a blow job!
Q. I have been sexualy active for about 9 years.... but have never been able to bring myself to give someone a blowjob. It has almost become a phobia.... the reason I can think of causing the fear are: 1. I have issues with texture and food, which ...
A. 27 January 2009: Get a banana and practice putting it on. The thing to remember is to make sure it is down all the way. and that it is the right size they do make diffrent sizes... (read in full...)
Would I hurt a girl with the size of my penis?
Q. Hi I am 16 years old and I am still a virgin and I want to know... I have a penis a little over 7 inches long and about 5.5 inches in circumference. Is that big and would I hurt a girl by having sex? Thanks...
A. 27 January 2009: I would say not much to worry about. You will want to consider using some lube when you do have sex will make it more pleasureable for the both of you.... (read in full...)
My fantasies...
Q. When I have sex with my husband, I tell him of my fantasy of watching him **** another women. I usually go into detail. I am so into it while we are having sex and if he brought someone into our room at that moment I would let it happen. I also tell ...
A. 27 January 2009: I would say that as long as it doesn't happen. I would not worry about it. The thing you need to remember is that if it does happen dont get mad dont feel bad.
But the thing that you need to remember is that it might not be wise to do it becau... (read in full...)
Afraid of giving a blow job!
Q. I have been sexualy active for about 9 years.... but have never been able to bring myself to give someone a blowjob. It has almost become a phobia.... the reason I can think of causing the fear are: 1. I have issues with texture and food, which ...
A. 27 January 2009: Try flovored condoms or creams. Also look to the net for suggestions. The giggles are from insecurties. It happens alot when you try something new.
Just make sure you lay down some ground rules before you do it. If you have a bad experien... (read in full...)
I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties.
Q. I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties. Is this ok because I think she suspects something?...
A. 27 January 2009: I think it is time to seek counseling. It sounds like you have problem and it needs to fixed... (read in full...)
Guidance needed please...
Q. Okay, this may sound really really confusing but I'm just looking for a little guidance. I am female and a senior in high school. Up until this point, I have had no real relationships, which makes me feel almost like something is wrong with me be...
A. 27 January 2009: I learned along time ago the heart wants what it wants. This said I only dated to people. The first was just a friend whom I never see the second is my wife. Not everybody needs to date hundreds of people to find the right one. One or two maybe... (read in full...)
Most of his pleasure is knowing I'm happy??
Q. So I stayed at this boys house last night but i was on my period. Anyway I refused to sleep with him because of this but then we decided to try anyway. He was on top of me and kinda decided just to stop after a few minutes. he had a condom on and ...
A. 22 January 2009: I would say he was concerned about your feelings. Maybe he thought that if it hurt to much you would not want to do it again for awhile.
If it was me I would be thankful that he stopped and didn't want you to be in pain.... (read in full...)
I want to try things but I'm scared to talk to him
Q. so this is a basic sex Q so iv been seeing this guy for a while . . . . call em jo an we were gud enuf mates bfore we got together great thing abou us is we both dont want to get to serious so were just kinda like together ??? but bk in august an ...
A. 21 January 2009: You need to learn to close your mind and just let your body what it will. Some people just need to sit and talk about there apprehensions. Maybe your friend can help you over come your fears.... (read in full...)
My wife & mother are constantly fighting! What can I do?
Q. my mother and wife keep arguing. my wife and i are 21 and my mom is 47 and i think they are both to old to be fighting the way that they do. they scream and yell at each other all the time. sometimes my mother brings my wife to tears when they ...
A. 20 January 2009: I would say that you have a problem. My question to you would be do you take a side or let the fireworks happen and then console the both of them afterwards. Does your mom live with you.
I would recomend that you try to head the fight off befo... (read in full...)
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