Heartbroken 17 year old. How do I move on?
Q. So I was dating this guy for the last 2 and half years and I love him so much. But he has this horrible Jekyll/Hyde personality. He can be sweet and romantic and suppportive, but you say the wrong thing and he completely snaps. He makes me cry ...
A. 18 April 2010: breaking up with someone is like mourning. Allow yourself the time to mourn.
the first couple of months are the hardest but you need to cut contact and take in baby steps. once a whole week has gone past with no contact then you;ll know you can ... (read in full...)
Help understanding what women really want
Q. When it comes to men why is women picky? why is it women always say they want a good man but then its like you have to be a certain height,certain race, and have all of these materialistic things just to be wit them and on top of that they alw...
A. 18 April 2010: From a girl's point of view girls do not ALWAYS go on about what they want.
if there's chemistry it's there and no many wil overlook if a guy does not have everything the girl wants.
its works both ways, guys go on about exactly what the... (read in full...)
Is my weight getting in the way of his pleasure?
Q. This might be a long story... Well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 3 years and everything has gone great, theres only one problem... he works out all the time and is super skinny while i'm overweight... our sex life is always s...
A. 18 April 2010: do some exercise lose the weight and you'll feel amazing. exercise will improve your confidence issues, don't do it for your boyfriend do it cos YOU want to.
try weight watchers and going to the gym or classes. it's fun and you'll feel so much ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to him, but I can't imagine spending my life with him.
Q. I've met a guy I think I really want to be with. I've never been in a long relationship before. He has, he's been in a few year type relationships where i always do months. I lost my virginity to him recently, although he had slept with 4 people ...
A. 18 April 2010: you don't have to make a decision anytime soon.
take it easy, relax and enjoy his company.
If it works out it works if not there are still plenty of fish in the sea.
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I have trouble with him not replying for three or four days
Q. I need help....my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago and a month ago we started talking again. It was great at first.He is very independent.I get anxious if he doesnt respond right away to my voice mail or text message and has told do not do that ...
A. 18 April 2010: Forget about him and don't text him again. He expects you to be free when he is...f*ck that. Keep yourself busy and when you feel like you're going to text him go and do something.
You don't want to look desperate, a woman who is independ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?
Q. me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with ...
A. 18 April 2010: she's slept with a lot of people but it must mean something that she's married you knowing that you're going to be the only person she sleeps with from now on. You should take comfort in that.
She could've lied but she didn't so don't punish h... (read in full...)
School, exams and controlling friends....
Q. i am 16 and doing my GCSEs and i go to one of the top grammer schools in the country and am so stressed because I have become so dumb since i started, i've just been going downhill. My expectations are so high because I used to be top of the class ...
A. 18 April 2010: Hi, Being 16 is a difficult age and especially with girls as girls can be VERY bitchy. I can understanf that it won't be easy to be out of the group and stand up to the 'Regina George (mean girls)' of the group. People like her hate being out o... (read in full...)
One night stand last night
Q. Hi, Was wondering if anyone has any thoughts/advice. I am currently living by myself and my boyfriend of 4 years has moved away for work. In the last month a guy at work (not same department) and I have been texting and emailing. He has a longter...
A. 17 April 2010: Hi, I've had the night to think about it and I spent it with good old school friends that know me and love me. I have come to realise that yes I think in a way I was punishing my boyfriend and to be honest a little bored. I didn't expect anyt... (read in full...)
One night stand last night
Q. Hi, Was wondering if anyone has any thoughts/advice. I am currently living by myself and my boyfriend of 4 years has moved away for work. In the last month a guy at work (not same department) and I have been texting and emailing. He has a longter...
A. 17 April 2010: We have texted this morning but just quite generic. Think I should just leave it? ... (read in full...)
Did he ever really like me or was it just about sex?
Q. Im confused, I met this guy about two years ago at work, he is 29 and i am 40, (i have been told i look younger), it was a fixed term contract, we clicked, we seemed to get on so well and I began to become attracted to him, but never let him know, ...
A. 17 April 2010: It seems that he likes you but his commitments to his family is more important. Maybe you should see this as a sign that you need to do something about your relationship? Think of it this way if it wasn't going to be this guy it probably wouldve ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. I keep cheating on my boyfriend. It's as simple as that. I feel like crap, it's happened twice and i've told him twice. The real problem is that I keep flirting and looking for more outside attention. Me and him don't spend very much time together ...
A. 17 April 2010: Hi,
I just read your situation and honestly when I was your age my first long term boyfriend was exactly like that. It seems that you want a boyfriend that stands up to you or at least a bit more assertive.
Obviously he's a nice guy but not... (read in full...)
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