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I want to date her, but she doesn't see me in that way. Any advice?

Q.   hey im in high school and one of my best friends since i satrted the school, is a really hot, funny girl. i have asked her out, but she said she didnt like me in that way. but i cant stop thinking about her. being with her etc. i wanna ask her out ...

A.   20 May 2007: one of my best guy friends asked me out at the beginning of the school year and i told him i just wanted to be friends but ever since i can't stop thinking of him its like i had never thought of him in that way but now that the idea was put into my ... (read in full...)

I have a "make other people happy complex". I feel guilt if I don't please people. Any advice as to whether this could be dealt with?

Q.   I have a "make other people happy complex" and i feel guilty if i am not able to make others happy at the place i go. I fear criticizm from my parents if i am not able to please the people i associate with wherever i go. That seems to be the only ...

A.   19 May 2007: i'm sry to have to tell you this actually i'm not but you've been blessed with a good heart. but just let it go sometimes i mean you can't control everyone's emotions and its just to hard to try to. just be yourself sometimes you can't make people ... (read in full...)

We split and he said..we'd try again once school was out. School is now out and nothing has happened! What is happening here?

Q.   I don't know what to do, I split from a guy around a month or two ago now, we were never really that serious, but I liked him so much, and loved spending time with him. When we split, he said that perhaps we could try again once school is out...

A.   19 May 2007: waiting is not an option if you want somthing you have to go 4 it. just drop hints and be like just wondering but have you ever thought about us getting back together he's a guy and most things you tell guys they forget so odds are he just forgot so ... (read in full...)

My three friends are all mad at each other and I am stuck in the middle of it all! How do I get out of this?

Q.   I'm in a messy situation. Two of my best friends started dating a few years ago. It was both of their first really serious relationship and it ended badly. They hated each other and I got to hear about it from both sides. Last month, they started ...

A.   18 May 2007: i've been in this same situation multiple times, i told my friends that i wasn't on anyone's side and they respected it and didn't really talk about each other to me and you can't really stop the fight but you can voice your opinion to your friends. ... (read in full...)

All my friends have made out with boys and I haven't. How do I get my claws into that really popular guy?

Q.   I'm 13 and all my m8s have been out with out with/hugged/kissed a boy and i haven't. there is this boy and i really like him and i can't get him out of my head, but hes really popular and I'm not and i don't know if he would ever go out with me. but ...

A.   18 May 2007: i kno exactly what your going through just drop him hints and be flirty with him don't just go by the popularity thing because that will hold you back maybe get your lil sis to ask his lil sis to ask him what he thinks of you get his lil sis to say ... (read in full...)

He told his friend the only reason he broke up with me was through guilt. How do I get him back?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago....long story...well he went on a school trip to europe and the day before they came back him and everyone else got drunk; he usually doesn't drink or get drunk..so what he did was he started kissing this ...

A.   12 May 2007: just give him some time, and tell him u aren't upset that he hooked up with another girl. if u really want him back just talk to him. hope this helps... (read in full...)

How can I win her back?

Q.   I'm 19 and have an ex gf who i absolutely adore, the thing is, she's with another guy and treats me like crap. I can't stand it and i really need her back. I finished her but i didn't think of the consequences, how can i win her back?...

A.   7 May 2007: if you really want her back just tell her how you feel but if she already has another boyfriend it seems like she's over with that part of your relationship. and if she's treating you like crap you should move on because it sounds like you deserve ... (read in full...)

A boy asked me out 6 months ago and I said no, now I can't stop thinking about him. How do I start talking to him again?

Q.   i've written before about this guy who asked me out like 6 months ago and i said no but now i think i want him back. i don't know if i want him as a friend or more, right now i really just want to get my friendship back with him because we don't ...

A.   17 February 2007: thanks, i'm really nervous though to call him what should i say?... (read in full...)

My bf is breaking up with and playing games with me! What's up with this guy?

Q.   my bf wants a break for two months. when i asked if we could meet other people he said he wouldn't comment and we'd talk in 2 mths. when i told him fine that I respect his decision and leave him alone he sent an sms saying are you giving up on us ...

A.   16 February 2007: i think its kind of shallow of him to say he would stop thinking of you just like that if you wanted to break up for good. i think he might just want to date around but thats not fair to you at all. i can't tell you exactly what to do because i ... (read in full...)

Will women only be interested if i talk in a certain way??

Q.   I am a single guy and find it difficult to engage myself in a conversation that is either not romantic or one trying to please the other person. This is especially true about conversations with the opposite sex. What i believe is there is a ...

A.   15 February 2007: it totally has to do with the woman and what her life style is but when i talk to the opposite sex i like to talk about down to earth stuff. it makes me feel that he can be comfortable with me and thats important to me. ... (read in full...)

Will our different values drive us apart???

Q.   My boyfriend is a white supremicist. I am white but i have a very diverse family (my aunt, from my grandpa's first wife, is half black and he also has a son who is half mexican). He tells me he doesnt mind because he loves me and some of my famil...

A.   15 February 2007: everyone has their differences and will argue from time to time. as long as it doesn't afffect your relationship or your family i think it will work out. so good luck!... (read in full...)

Should I dig deeper??

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I recently broke up.... we had a long due issue and he decided to part. I dont know anyone that knows him personally,except I pick up stories from him or id be included in their mail list when they send each other junk email ...

A.   15 February 2007: i think that there might be some things you don't know about him and if your close with his friends you probobly should ask them some questions. he's probobly afraid you'll get closer to his friends but i wouldn't think to much of it.... (read in full...)

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