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writes:my bf wants a break for two months. when i asked if we could meet other people he said he wouldn't comment and we'd talk in 2 mths. when i told him fine that I respect his decision and leave him alone he sent an sms saying are you giving up on us all together or giving us a 2 mth break, when i didn't reply he sent another saying I need to know because if your not giving us the break I'll stop thinking of you. He also said that if we cant wait for each other for two months, we don't love each other. This break really hurts me. Is he playing games to get rid of me, why two months,how do i know if he loves me. does anybody know what this is all about please
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): He has said this to you because he probably likes another girl and possibly wants the chance to date her.He doesn't want to two time you, hence the two month break. He knows that if he were to tell you the truth you would be dreadfully upset and would never go back with him. So what he is doing is keeping you on the back burner, if it doesn't work out with the new girl he can always come back to you. I would move on and try and find someone else, because lads like this have a habit of doing this over and over again. You'll be back together, he'll see someone else that takes his fancy and you'll be on another two month break.
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reader, Dawn_14  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 i think its kind of shallow of him to say he would stop thinking of you just like that if you wanted to break up for good. i think he might just want to date around but thats not fair to you at all. i can't tell you exactly what to do because i don't know everything about it but i know you shouldn't get treated like that. you've got to decide if you want to wait for him or get on with your life. hope this is helpful
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