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writes:My ex boyfriend and I recently broke up.... we had a long due issue and he decided to part. I dont know anyone that knows him personally,except I pick up stories from him or id be included in their mail list when they send each other junk email jokes. I was always curious to get to know them but i also felt like i could just greet them and make some friends, but i never mentioned us dating except i told them i just know him as a person. And we never talk about him since then...not because I am planning anything against him. I am a social person so I thought I could create a few friendships. Nonetheless yesterday I sent a batch email to some of my friends and included the person that I picked from his list of friends (they are women, and i dont think he dated any of the two, from what i pick up). He usually includes me in his email group list so people meet through that coz they always reply to all or they would create a slight forum of conversations.Today he responded back and he wasn't impressed by me keeping contact with his friends... Could it be there is something that he thinks his friends will tell me??? He has aroused my curiosity and i feel i should ask his friends some questions about him. Maybe there is a lot to dig.... what cud be the reason?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): what? this is delusion at its height. no there's nothing there- he's just pissed b/c you're horning in on his friends. why are you copying emails to girls you don't even know, when you know they're your ex's friends? what's wrong with you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): Question: Why is anything about this guy your business at this point?
Answer: It's not
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): He responded that way not because he has anything to hide but because he feels like you are acting a little stalker-like, which you are. There is no valid reason to be emailing his friends.
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reader, Amy85  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 I would definately try to get to the bottom of the situation purely for peace of mind - if you find something you dont like at least you know what this guy is really about - you may be hurt at first but then at least you will be able to let him go so you can start fresh with someone who respects is good enough for you.
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reader, Dawn_14  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 i think that there might be some things you don't know about him and if your close with his friends you probobly should ask them some questions. he's probobly afraid you'll get closer to his friends but i wouldn't think to much of it.
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