Can you love someone but not want to be with them ?
Q. Is it possible to be in love with someone but not want to 'be' with them? My friends bf say he's in love with her but doesnt want to be in a relationship. surely if someone is in love with someone they'd want to be together? Opinions please, we ...
A. 23 June 2006: it depends on his situation. Maybe she is perfect for him in all ways but he doesn't feel ready to settle down. Right now i'm in that situation, i have met the true love of my life but i don't feel ready to settle down yet. I won't give up what is ... (read in full...)
Know any good Icebreakers!?
Q. Im so scared ...... im going out with this guy but i never know what to discuss with him ? have u got any like ice breakers? lol ...
A. 23 June 2006: if you've not planned where your going yet then make it somewhere really exciting that you won't have time to think about chatting. The worst kind of first dates are ones where you are forced to talk. Do something like bungee jumping or something ... (read in full...)
My BF has a big donger and it hurts when we have sex! How can I ease the pain?
Q. Hello, I recently started (about a month ago) having sex with my boyfriend as I was a virgin. Everything is okay but he is 9 inches and everytime he goes in it hurts. The pain goes away after awhile but it still hurts real bad going in. Is there ...
A. 23 June 2006: if it doesn't hurt after a while then the problem is probably nerves because you are literally braced for the pain. Your body naturally will make you tense up, so the more relaxed you are about it the less it will hurt which is probably why it stops ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isnt exciting anymore!
Q. Help....I'm confused. I really need some advie from anyone so any comments would be greatly appreciated. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for nearly 3 years. However, 8 months ago i finished with him as I didn't feel fulfilled i.e. not...
A. 21 June 2006: i am in exactly the same situation right now, but i keep asking myself what if i were to go with the other guy? Do you think three years down the line with him that it would be full of exitement or is this just a pipe dream? maybe i'm wrong and you ... (read in full...)
We took the plunge into a relationship, now I wish we had just stayed friends!!
Q. There is this girl I have been friends with now for over 3 years and I have come to love her more than any other person. I accepted the fact that we would never be together, and I am was really happy being just friends. Just the other day I found ...
A. 21 June 2006: having been in the same situation i can tell you that you do give something up when you become lovers, i gave up my best friend, but i gained a boyfriend who i get on with wonderfully. The way you think about each other is naturally going to change ... (read in full...)
Dumped by text message, still feel cross about it, what happens when I see him again, dont want to do something stupid!
Q. Dear peops, I got dumped by text message a few days ago and am still reeling. I text back (politely) what I thought of his 'tactics' but dont know if he read it or replied as I lost my phone a few hours later in town. My main worry at the moment...
A. 21 June 2006: I agree with ariel, nothing makes a guy regret his actions than seeing that all you have done since you left him, is thrive. The happier you look the unhappier he'll be. But rather than being angry about how he dumped you, you should think it's ... (read in full...)
He may be going back to his ex, but stills wants me if things don't work out!
Q. I met this guy about 3 months ago and we immediatly hit it off, we went out at least 3 times a week and he told me how strongly he felt about me and about our relationship..a few weeks later I got a call from a girl sayin that she is his ex of 3 ...
A. 21 June 2006: I know this is gonna be harsh, but sometimes we need to be cruel to be kind. Look at it this way he's saying your perfect but obviously if he is willing to jeopardise you for her then he must like her better. He must think she is more perfect than ... (read in full...)
How do I turn my boyfriend on?
Q. hey, my boyfreind and i have been making out but we never seem to get that sensation at teh same time. sometimes he would get erect and i'm still waiting for the sensation to hit and vice versa. and it's ruining our makeout life so badly. i would ...
A. 21 June 2006: From a psychological point of view it could be seen that you and him are not ideal partners, it has been said that ideal partners mimic each other in a way that makes them more suitable to each other. If you do things like mis-time kisses or bump ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my second cousin!
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know what to do, I think i've fallen for my second cousin. I met him when I was at age 6 or around there, and after that I hadn't seen him untill we were at ages 13 and 14 and we met at the local skating rink wich is where al...
A. 21 June 2006: to be honest i don't think that you should worry too much about your parents. if he is your second cousin then i assume that this means he is not a blood re3lative but his aunt or uncle married into your family. I may be wrong but if he isn't blood ... (read in full...)
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