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writes:Im so scared ...... im going out with this guy but i never know what to discuss with him ? have u got any like ice breakers? lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): speakin from a guys point of veiw , a a man likes nothing more than a girl who acts cool and is herself around him.
hope the advice works for ya babe xxx
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reader, daughteroflilith +, writes (23 June 2006):
if you've not planned where your going yet then make it somewhere really exciting that you won't have time to think about chatting. The worst kind of first dates are ones where you are forced to talk. Do something like bungee jumping or something vigorous that takes focus, that way you'll interact more naturally.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Well, do you know what sort of things he is into ? Does he like football, basketball etc.. thigns along those lines... are there any things that the two of you yet have in common ? Half the time its the fact that you are on a date thats important, not what you actually say! hes probably thinking the same thing! Maybe casually mention things that you have done that day, mention something you read in a magazine something like that and try to get an opinion from him about it, and hopefully the conversation can then build from there! Be yourself though and try to relax, but remember hes probably feeling it to, so take the journey together!
Take care and good luck!
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Hey, just be yourself, treat him as you would a friend, initially it will be a little uncomfortable, but that's natural. You are thinking too much about your feelings, and no doubt you will be a little nervous! Darlin, just take it easy, talk about anything and everything, I doubt the two of you will remember much of what was exchanged after anyway as you both may feel relieved you jumped over the first hurdle. Also your feelings take over and your brain goes numb, becuase you are spending time in new company and new information is being absorbed in your mind. Take a nice relaxing bath before, get in the mood, just chill, and don't worry if you are sitting through a few awkward silences, this is bound to happen from time to time, it's how you both deal with those silences. Most likely you will both look back on all this and think how silly you were to worry! Best of luck and enjoy each others company... take care sweetie. x
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reader, camille +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Don't plan it, it'll show and maybe make you more anxious. Trying to remember what you've decided to say may tie you in knots. Just be yourself, try to relax and tell yourself that if you're going out with him, he already likes you and vice versa. Make sure there's a balance of talking and listening and that you both get to speak and it's not all one sided with either of you just talking about themselves. I'd suggest you stay away from talking about exes!
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