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anonymous
writes: hey, my boyfreind and i have been making out but we never seem to get that sensation at teh same time. sometimes he would get erect and i'm still waiting for the sensation to hit and vice versa. and it's ruining our makeout life so badly. i would liek it try new things but he's not into the kinky stuff so what should i try to get him horny since i'm so limited. i slso don't wanan come of as a horny freak to him. so do you have any simple ways of getting yoru boyfreind horny. also i was wondering if the longer the makeout session is it better or the shorter it takes is better. i was just wondering.
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reader, daughteroflilith +, writes (21 June 2006):
From a psychological point of view it could be seen that you and him are not ideal partners, it has been said that ideal partners mimic each other in a way that makes them more suitable to each other. If you do things like mis-time kisses or bump into each other alot then this is traditionally a sign that you are not suited, on the other hand you can use this as a positive. Your boyfriend will touch you in a way that most likely he would enjoy being touched in so mimic his actions. not in an entirely obvious way but pay attention to his body language and use the same tactics he uses. i recommend lightly kissing the back of his neck, it isn't overly horny but should send tingles down his spine. and neither sesh is better some is different for one person than the other. I prefer prolonged sessions, on the other hand my boy doesn't. Personally i think it's nicer to linger on something than to rush straight into the hot and heavy stuff. it leaves more to the imagination and gives the guy the chance to get worked up
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