My best friend and lover made me feel like a used condom.
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I've posted here before and gotten such great advice, words that truly helped me with the problems in my life. Recovering from a breakup I met a boy in one of my classes. Immediately I could tell he was attracted to me, and...
A. 14 August 2011: Thanks everyone,
Your support and advice really helps. It sucks so much to feel so severe, being the one to end something while someone smiles at you, texts you, makes it obvious that despite their retardedness you mean something to them....... (read in full...)
Coping with Guilt and Lost Love, Please Help
Q. It's been about six months since the end of my relationship and I am still in agony. Get got very close and very deep very quickly. Everything feel apart so fast I had whiplash. I loved this person with my whole soul. When we met I didn't want a ...
A. 30 September 2010: Oh, also, after weeks of crying and being told we could meet and talk, I found out he was going to be leaving the country. I begged him to just see me one last time and finally he just said he didn't think it was "such a good idea." I asked him why ... (read in full...)
Who should buy the condoms?
Q. Hey, who do you think should supply a condom the boys or the girls? or should they take turns? Thanks....
A. 1 July 2010: I dated a guy for SIX MONTHS and he never bought a single condom. And condoms are expensive. And when I finally brought it up his excuse was that it was far less embarrassing for a woman to buy the condoms. Lame excuse.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but ... (read in full...)
I need a cute, but not girly, name for my man!
Q. Hey, i was wondering when your in a relationship what do guys like to be called? Alot of my freinds said they like to be called "daddy" is that true? My bf calls me babe, beautiful, baby girl, angel, love. I usually call him handsome or my man and i ...
A. 1 July 2010: My mom always called my dad "manly." I had a friend who called her man "ducky" for absolutely no reason, and it was as cute as heck. I always wanted to give someone that name. As for me, I always called my love "boyfriend." Simple and sweet. "How ... (read in full...)
I'm gay, and I don't want to be!
Q. Hey Everbody, i really need help with this problem i have....im gay , but don't want to be...i feel that being gay was not meant for me...nobody knows im gay and itz killing me to keep this secret...itz taking a toll on my life and ruining whats ...
A. 1 July 2010: Omg. Honey. Big hug. I know this isn't easy. A lot of people have been in a situation much like this, not just about their sexuality but in many realms in life. They find themselves facing an inconvenient truth. People have a picture of what ... (read in full...)
I know he was a jerk, but I don't FEEL he was a jerk!
Q. I have serious problems letting go of a guy, who I know (rationally) was a jerk! But I love him so much, and I feel bad all the time. I mean, he was jealous of my past, and because of that, he called me names and was verbally/emotionally abusive to ...
A. 1 July 2010: Also, just in terms of advice on what you can actively do, I found it helped when I looked back and did a little role reversal. Look at the situation and what you would have done if you were him and see what according to your own morals and ethics ... (read in full...)
I know he was a jerk, but I don't FEEL he was a jerk!
Q. I have serious problems letting go of a guy, who I know (rationally) was a jerk! But I love him so much, and I feel bad all the time. I mean, he was jealous of my past, and because of that, he called me names and was verbally/emotionally abusive to ...
A. 1 July 2010: You say that you know him and see the good in him. One of the hard parts of being the kind of good person who has trouble being angry with things and people they understand is that it makes it difficult to set up boundaries. It is never, NEVER ok... (read in full...)
Is this normal to feel upset after sex or a hook up?
Q. I had sex for the first time this week with a guy who is three years older then me. I really liked it and he was so sweet about it but we aren't dating and there are storys of him being a player but I let him do it anyways. It's been two days since ...
A. 1 July 2010: One thing I know is that people who are young have yet to learn how what they do can truly hurt people. They make big mistakes, and they don't always do the right thing. Young people can do very bad things, young men aren't always brave and do a lot ... (read in full...)
My friend slept with a guy I care about a lot -- do I drop the friendship?
Q. A while ago, my best friend of 12 years slept with my long term boyfriend. I broke up with him, but eventually forgave her. More recently, she slept with a different ex of mine, who she knew I still loved and cared deeply for. She said it was a ...
A. 1 July 2010: I always endorse forgiveness, but you have done this once before. I wouldn't call anyone who thinks so little of causing you pain a true friend.... (read in full...)
He cheated because he was drunk and I cant get over it!
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months...we started going out sept.7, 2009 and its now June.30, 2010... Back in Feburary he decided to throw a small party when his mother was away and get drunk...( one girl and 4 guys) well ...
A. 1 July 2010: Omfg. This is NOT the way someone who loves you should treat yo. You need to love YOURSELF and demand a little more respect. The person who loves you should see you and treat you as none other than a goddess. I know what it's like to get cheated ... (read in full...)
How much should you forgive before giving up?
Q. My boyfriend kissed another woman, a co-worker. I never even got mad, I never yelled. I just asked him if he wanted to be with me anymore and he just said he didn't know. I cried for a week solid. He changed his story and said of course he wanted ...
A. 1 July 2010: Thanks to everyone who replied to my question.
I kicked myself for so long for crying when he hurt me and for "pushing him away." This was my first relationship, and I blamed myself for ruining it. He told me that he did want to be with me and I... (read in full...)
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