Husband cheating says he gets sucked in by the internet
Q. We have been married 33 years-happily I thought. Last week I discoverded my husband had been chatting online and on a webcam to women. Mostly ordinary stuff but also talk of kissing and brushing hair, etc but not sex. He said it was for friendship. ...
A. 6 June 2010: 1. Get a professional. 2. I am sorry, but if I was in his position I wouldn't be telling you the whole truth straight away, and frankly, i'd be telling myself it was because I wanted to protect you and not hurt you. There are parts of his sto... (read in full...)
Is she not interested anymore?
Q. Hi all, new here.. ok, so quick summary- met girl at bar(she hit on me actually), went out wk later kissed, went out 2 wks later, hooked up at her place after bar, following weekend went to her families vaca home and stayed there(with famil...
A. 6 June 2010: Give her a call, but if you don't get good vibes thrown back at you soon, then she's just not that into you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friendship with his ex-wife is hard for me to endure.
Q. I started dating again someone that I had a brief relationship (for 2 months 2 yeas ago). This time things are more serious, we got back together 3 months ago, we already talked about the idea of moving together, if things go well having a baby etc...
A. 6 June 2010: All good answers above, but none can hit the mark unless you make your situation less ambiguous: do you know the ex-wife? If not, why not? Is he keeping her from you at all? Does the ex have her own boyfriend now? Or is she being co-dependant ... (read in full...)
Mistreated by husband but haven't the strength to leave
Q. Can anyone help? I've been with my husband for 12 years, but for the last 5 years, I've been unhappy at home! He constantly critisises and belittles me, both at home and in front of friends, family and strangers! 3 years ago, during an extrem...
A. 6 June 2010: Self pity is the worst emotion in the world, next to jealousy. Don't allow yourself to feel it and then MOVE ON. Don't be the girlfriend that repeatedly goes back to the man that beats her. Leave.... (read in full...)
After 6 months he's not in love with me, does he need more time?
Q. Hi there My BF and I are together for 6 months. I am 36 and he is 47.We met at online dating and since the begining we were very much attracted to eachother. Sex life is great and we get on really well. I have met his family and friends. We alwa...
A. 6 June 2010: Aye, Aye, Aye...this is why you don't hire women to tell you what men think.
I don't know who had control over the realtionship until now, but after this
fiasco, he does. You can easily figure out what the long term options are in this relatio... (read in full...)
Why is she keeping me away from her friends?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and have a strong, loving relationship. We live in a small community (both work within the school corporation), so alot of people in the community know we're dating. Yet, she refuses to ...
A. 5 June 2010: Coming from the male point of view, it sounds like your girlfriend has some hangups and baggage. Even if the reasons are legitimate for her actions, ala some of the female replies above, all good relationships are based on trust, and hers is ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want my ex-wife, to get laid?
Q. I have a dilemma with my ex-wife. We are still friends but I am concerned that she losing her vitality for life. She was full of fun and at her best during our marriage soon after an she had an affair (which I am not supposed to know about). ...
A. 5 June 2010: Could you be oversimplifying the sex with another man thing? What women want is companionship (read: someone to listen to them talk) and security. Don't get me wrong friend, but when you walked in on her 10 years ago, she was missing something ... (read in full...)
Am I just afraid... and is my fear justified?
Q. Guys, I really need some independent advice. I broke up with my only long-term boyfriend two years ago. Since then, we had a lot of back together - breaking up (with me doing the breaking), then a year ago I went to travel the world. While ...
A. 5 June 2010: Judging from your love of travel, you like adventure. The only time this man satisfies your sense of adventure is when you can't have him. Thus, above post is wrong: I can say he is not right for you.
They say one definition of crazines... (read in full...)
Should some part of me actually believe my ex???
Q. My ex and i were together for a almost 4 years. We had a year of no contact after the break up. We have been talking for almost a year. He isn't the type to just jump back into a relationship. To him, I don't think its a switch you turn on and ...
A. 5 June 2010: Sorry, but he is just not that into you. He likes having you as a backup plan, but that is all. The only way this is going to ever work out for you is you stop chasing him and turn the tables on him. Men want what they can't have, and right now ... (read in full...)
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