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I feel insecure, I hate my looks and wish I had bigger boobs!

Q.   Help me, I'm such an insecure idiot... I hate my looks. I just feel very insecure. Especially with my boyfriend. Yes, he thinks I'm pretty and have a nice body. But there's this factor: a) I asked. He likes toned bodies and bigger breasts....

A.   7 October 2008: hi i know how you feel i used to be the same way but then i found someone who loved me exactly the way i am and that built my confidence up. You need to put the past behind you and move on from that and if your boyfriend truely loves you then he ... (read in full...)

I'm bisexual and attracted to a girl in my college, only we don't meet very often. How can approach her?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 17-year-old bisexual female, currently at college in the UK. There's this girl in my year who I think is absolutely gorgeous. We've never spoken (she's not in any of my classes and my college is huge) but I've noticed she looks at me quite ...

A.   5 March 2008: the next time u see her talk to her tell her who u r and ask her if she would like to go on a date with u and then get to know each other a bit better... (read in full...)

Where should I take her on our date? Should we go alone or bring some friends?

Q.   i like this girl im not to sure how to ask hir out for a date?? if we do go out on a date where should i take her ? should we go alone or with some friends? how can i tell if she likes me? ...

A.   5 March 2008: if u like her that much then ask her out on a date just go to the cinema or somewhere quiet where u can talk, and then depending on how well that goes ask her out, that is the only way you will find out if she likes you or not... (read in full...)

Should I spend the rest of my life with someone who won't satisfy me?

Q.   I am 12 years old and I've just had sex with my boyfriend. The problem is I think his penis is too small I talked to my friends at school and they said it was definetly too small and I don't think I want to see him again. I know he had sex with alot ...

A.   5 March 2008: you have your wholelife ahead of you. you cant decide at 12 wether you want to spend the restof your life with some one u should complete your school work and wait for a few years before getting serious with anyone. you are too youb=ng to be ... (read in full...)

The conversation online with a friend became a little "dirty," his gf found out and became suspicious! Should I ignore her or take other precautions?

Q.   I was chatting online to a friend and it got a little dirty on a couple of occasions, the friend is a friend of my boyfriend who i have been with a long time. His girlfriend found out and got really annoyed, we said it didnt mean anything but she ...

A.   5 March 2008: i would just not say anything it sounds to me like she has a few problems of her own like she doesnt trust her b. maybe you should speak to your friend and get him to talk to her cause it sounds like they have a few problems to sort out... (read in full...)

I want to give him more signs that I like him to find out if he reciprocates or it's all in my imagination!...

Q.   Right i'm so sorry for the length of this but in order to get a proper answer i need to say everything and need to start from the beginning. Right i'm one of these girls thats never had a bf and never really been bothered about getting one but when ...

A.   5 March 2008: if you really like this guy then maybe you should talk to him and tell him how u really feel its the only way your going to find out if he likes you or not. there is only two things he can say that is yes he likes you and then you can go from the... (read in full...)

Is there too much of an age gap? Should I ask her out or not?

Q.   there is this girl that i work with, she is very beautiful and very nice as well, me and her have lately been talking about some things flirting a little bit and i really would like to see if there is anything there between us, and ask her out on a ...

A.   5 March 2008: i dont think there is any problem with your age gap 3 years is nothing really and if you really like her then u should ask her out u never know what happens. ... (read in full...)

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