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What is the maximum age I can go for?

Q.   Right i am 16 years old and a girl and i want to know what is the maximum age limit i can go for before people think its weird. Because i know this guy who is 22 nothing has happened but he is soooooo nice (: But i also had an emotional affair...

A.   14 October 2009: The age difference shouldn't be the main thing, it should be the difference in maturity. The biggest problem with age differences in relationships are priorities - you will almost always have different priorities from a person if you're not in the ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get pregnant a week after your period?

Q.   Hi! I have a question for all you women I try searching for the answers to my question and couldn't find anything that was helpful enough. Hope yall can help me. I would greatly appreciated....ok so the week after my menstrual period I had sex with ...

A.   14 October 2009: Yes. It is technically possible to get pregnant any time you have unprotected sex. Even while on your period. The symptoms you described could be related to pregnancy, like change of hormones and fatigue - or it could be something else all together. ... (read in full...)

Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?

Q.   My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear ...

A.   14 October 2009: Forgive me for being brutally honest, but if you've noticed how gorgeous she is, then chances are, so has he. It's just how men are, and women, for that matter. We automatically 'judge' somebody's looks the moment we meet them. We notice when ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend can't get hard enough to have sex

Q.   i need help when im with my boyfriend he cant get hard enough to make love to me weve been together off and on for 5 years now and we havent been able to make propper love making please hel ...

A.   12 July 2009: Can he get hard on his own? I'm no sex expert, but if he can, then he should be able to teach you his techniques to make himself hard. Maybe watch pornography together, if that's not too intimidating for you. Maybe you need more foreplay. A lot of ... (read in full...)

Advise on finding first job.

Q.   Dear Cupid, i need help... in finding a job. i've been miserable as of late stuck in my room doing nothing dwelling on things. it's really driving me mad and to the brink of insanity! i'm a 20 year old whose never ever had a job and i don't know whe...

A.   11 July 2009: If you're having trouble looking for places that are hiring, you should check out craigslist. Though the person before me is right, with the economy, most of the positions on there are very hard to land. Just go around places, and ask if they're ... (read in full...)

He likes looking at other women and will not have sex with me.

Q.   I am 48 and my boyfriend of 5 years is a very young 56. He enjoys very much looking at other women and watching movies with naked women but he will not have sex with me. He has pushed me away so many times that I do not even try anymore. We go 6 ...

A.   11 July 2009: A couple of possible reasons why he isn't having sex with you: He's doing it with someone else. He's not interested in you anymore. Or rather, he's not attracted anymore. (Sorry for the harshness.) He's very stressed about something or ano... (read in full...)

Can people really change? Or is it just an act?

Q.   To start, as of now I'm 25 and he's almost 27. So I started seeing this guy back in Jan. 08. After about a month into the relationship I became pregnant. I really didn't know what I thought about him at the time and I certainly wasn't ready to ...

A.   11 July 2009: People can change. But for how long? I think that's the real question. Maybe you should let him know how you feel, but that you're a bit cautious. That you want to be with him, but you don't want to get hurt. It might keep him on his toes. ... (read in full...)

Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?

Q.   Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. ...

A.   11 July 2009: Thanks everyone, your insight is truly appreciated. =] He did mention that he wasn't against dating me, but the truth is, I really don't see us going past the whole FWB deal.... (read in full...)

My breasts are different sizes by about a cup, what can I do?

Q.   Ever since I was about 16, my breasts have been different sizes. Now that I'm 19, they're still different. I'd say it's a good cup size difference, so it's obvious when I'm naked. Luckily, you can't really tell when I have a shirt on, although my ...

A.   10 July 2009: I have that same problem, my breasts are a cup size apart. Scientifically, at least.. there's nothing you can do that would 'naturally' increase your bust size. Especially if it's only on one side. A breast augmentation is probably the only way to ... (read in full...)

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