New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*reampuff agony aunt

*reampuff

(Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *reampuff to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *reampuff a private message

*reampuff's Ratings
Excellent57%
Average14%
Poor29%

I wish my boyfriend would just take his time when he touches me. Right now, it isn't a turn on at all!

Q.   When my boyfriend tries to finger me it really hurts. (This is the most sexual activity I've paricipated in.) The first time it was OK, but it didnt turn me on at all. And the second time it hurt. I told him to stop, which he did of course. I feel...

A.   22 February 2006: Like the others have said talk to him. Tell him what u want him to do, put ur hand on the outside of his and guide him if nessisary. As for him he probably would like you to return the favor, what u actually want to do is up to and depends on how f... (read in full...)

I think he's unattractive, but for some reason when he asked me out, I said OK...

Q.   Hey, this boy really fancies me and although I don't like him back I still flirt with him. On Valentines Day I got off with him! I don't know why as I don't see him as attractive and think that he is ugly, but he has asked me out and I don't want ...

A.   17 February 2006: You must have fallen for his personality, you gotta be honest with yourself is this enough for you? u seem a bit preocupied with his looks and is this all thats putting you off? Or you could possibly just like the attention he is giving you coz he l... (read in full...)

He doesn't know when he is going to have an orgasm

Q.   My partner cannot feel anything up to the point of orgasm, and then it comes as a complete surprise. The lack of build up means that he has no control over it, and is very consious of it during sex. Has anyone got any suggestions?...

A.   17 February 2006: Could be various reasons for this so i would say he should go to the doctors and get checked out to make sure there isnt a problem. I had a similar problem with my Bf but resolved this thro trying diffrant condoms ( trying to find one that was thin ... (read in full...)

I’m missing him a lot!.Do I wait and hope that he misses me enough to get in touch?

Q.   This guy and I have been close friends for just under 2 months but known each other for years. I am feeling confused by mixed signals he is giving me regarding whether he wants more or not and I think he is feeling the same way about me. We are ...

A.   17 February 2006: You wont know untill you ask him, maybe he feels like you but is afraid he's got your signals wrong to. Be bold send him a text tell him how u feel tell him ur missing him and want to c him again soon. Try to make some plans call him if he isnt ... (read in full...)

Walked in on my boyfriend and discovered his DVD of porn!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and I love him very much and don't wont to lose him. But this morning I found a porn film in his room. We have descused porn before and I've explained that I personaly don't like it. But the issue is that I ...

A.   17 February 2006: Have you sat down and talked to him about it, told him how it makes you feel? Personally porn dosnt bother me, i get what ur feeling tho. Does it bother you and make you feel that bed you would want to finnish with him?, maybe you could comparmise ... (read in full...)

My habit of arguing broke us up, so I offered to be friends-with-benefits just to keep seeing him!

Q.   I am twenty years old and the guy I have been dating for two years is nineteen. We have been attached at the hip for those two years with the exception of a 4 month break up where we saw other people. The problem is that we constantly argue ov...

A.   17 February 2006: Something similar happend to me although he was the one to finnish us i feel i stared it complaining he had no time for me. I did the same thing we became friends with benefits because i still really wanted to be with him and like u felt this would ... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend and I to get engaged, so how do I let him know that without asking him to marry me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and we have discussed the issue of marriage. I know he wants to marry me, but he wants to wait until I am older but I really want to get engaged now. How can I let him know that I am ready ...

A.   1 February 2006: Pornstarkitty is right, the only other thing is drop a hint like stop at a jewelry store window for a few mins maybe point out a ring saying "thats a nice engagment ring isnt it?" or somet like that. But wats the rush? ur together wats it matter if ... (read in full...)

When we broke up, he asked to stay friends... so why is he avoiding me now?

Q.   I have this problem. I broke up with my bf back in the beginning of December and it's been really hard on me even though it was a mutual ending. We said we would still be friends and he even suggested that I call him once in a while to catch up, ...

A.   1 February 2006: He's probabaly having more trouble with staying friends than he thought give him more time and let him talk to you when hes ready, and if u do talk to him make it more once a month or longer then there might actually be something to catch up on. ... (read in full...)

I can't bear to go away with him...what can I do?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend has booked to take me away for 5 days abroad, including valentines. We broke up after nearly 3 years together and have been apart 3 months. We got back with each other and have been together again 3 weeks. I have suddenly be...

A.   1 February 2006: Its hard to say why u now feel this way as u didnt state why u broke up in the first place, maybe its the fact that that relationship broke for 3 months and in that time u accepted the break and ended that part of ur life and now getting back to it ... (read in full...)

*reampuff's friends

These are mutual friends, so *reampuff has added them and they have added *reampuff!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937444999945001!