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writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and we have discussed the issue of marriage. I know he wants to marry me, but he wants to wait until I am older but I really want to get engaged now. How can I let him know that I am ready to get engaged without asking him to marry me?
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reader, StarNews +, writes (3 February 2006):
I am a firm believer in saying what is on your mind. I wouldnt throw hints, because this is something too important to you, and you need a direct answer. If you feel afraid to tell him, then thats a sign that maybe you are having doubts that he does not mean what he says. The only way you are going to know for sure, is to be open and honest with him.
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reader, Creampuff +, writes (1 February 2006):
Pornstarkitty is right, the only other thing is drop a hint like stop at a jewelry store window for a few mins maybe point out a ring saying "thats a nice engagment ring isnt it?" or somet like that. But wats the rush? ur together wats it matter if your engaged or not? If he wants to wait till ur older maybe you should respect that. But if he wants to marry giving a hint might be the thing to let him know ur ready if u dont want to just blatently ask.Good luck
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reader, PornStarKitty +, writes (1 February 2006):
well... if u have a stable happy relationship just talk about it! tell the truth! tell him how you feel and that you want to get engaged! there is no other way round it! but you do have to respect the fact he wants to wait! hes only thinking of your welfare!!
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